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Learning, Mastering, Mentoring

When I was six I learned to turn on the oven and make one of those canned cinnamon roll thingies that you bang on the counter. I was not allowed to put it in to or take it out of the oven. At age eight I had the Betty Crocker Boys and Girls Cookbook and made theme parties for our little brother: Kings and Queens; and a Pirate Treasure Hunt. With theme cakes and costumes and…. treasure!

Yes, I learned how to use a knife, a dull one, make grilled cheese, pancakes, toast and carrot curls.

In high school I started reading Gourmet. After college I went into the rat race then quit after nearly ten years. I spent my life savings on cooking school and it has served me well for 30 years. Shop the outside of the aisles. Inside only for needed rice and dry pasta. And tinned San Marzano tomatoes if in northern climates. I made my way through James Beard, Julia Child, Simca Beck, and the best authors of local/global cuisine including Piero in Italy.

I love teaching kids how to taste new things by making 10 toppings for pizza dough I made beforehand, give them the dough to roll out and top and place in the oven. Then I have them make their own dough to rise in their refrigerator overnight. Mentoring. Learning.

Time in the field, it was done. Fingers in hot sugar syrup. 700 degree loaves of bread to rack with bare hands. I did it all and learned so much throughout the process, that continues even though I am retired from my consulting career (non-food) and make food for my husband, dog and family and friends.

I have never lost the touch in any of my careers. Research, legislation, getting a crosswalk installed, then get re-painted two years later. Food is a never-ending passion, to learn something from the produce manager or butcher is a gift, every day. I’m the only client who brings in Pedernales chili or beef carbonnade for tasting.

People may get a bit rusty in their skills but if they’ve got the heart and guts, know what they’re dealing with they can brush up in a heartbeat. Trouble is, those who don’t know, pretend to know. They can’t learn what I learned over forty years in a weekend. Are my knife skills a little slow because of arthritis, or perhaps I had another profession for 12 years? Yes. Do I know more than any young cook about cooking and other endeavors? Yes.

My husband is the son of a dairyman and a nurse. He milked cows. No, I never did (fed one twin on formula in a 5 gallon bucket because cows shun a twin). When people interview my husband and find out his background and that his parents wanted him to go to college and graduate with a premier scientific degree and leave the farm, they want to hire him right away.

We are honest, forthright, and do not toot our own horns. What you see is what you get. I tried to get our old dog a “job” visiting hospice and was told no. Why? It’s not her sunny personality that has made her our neighborhood mascot. It’s that she eats frozen raw food and they think she’ll transmit disease. She’s nearly 12 years old, 80 in “people years.” I’m not going to change her food now, as it’s the only thing she’s been willing to eat since she was six months old.

We’re a family of mentors and there’s a crop of new pups. Perhaps she should mentor them in doggie etiquette. And how to steal a steak off a cutting board. Yes, every time I sent her to doggie camp she came back with a new bad habit, especially when they placed her as a pup with the older, docile ones. Cheers! Dee

TripAdvisor Nightmare

I now have 87 K readers. Thank you.

Pure? Forgive me for laughing. I write pure reviews that after hundreds are accepted and I’m sent a tote bag as a Top Contributor you will allow a building in which I sang and won 2nd in a state championship be demolished even though it has been designated a National Historic Landmark. That concert was fifty years ago and I’m not allowed to ask people to attend this Institution and see it before it is demolished in the next few months. If I can’t write a review after fifty years what is the point of Trip Advisor. I went there. I sang. Won 2nd place. Love the amphiteater. What is wrong here is you, not me.

Not much thanks going for you today, Aldo. There is something that speaks to the people of Chautauqua, I tried to convey it to you. You would not publish it even though I asked people to visit. This weekend they choose a company to demolish the heart of this institution and you are allowing it to happen over the National Trust for Historic Preservation and the NYS historic trust. I hope that sits well with you, your conscience, as it does not with mine. Denying my post is an insult to me as a top contributor, as a person and as a conservationist.

Your request to TripAdvisor Support (1378496) has been updated with the comments below. To add additional comments, please reply to this email.

TripAdvisor Content Integrity (Aldo) (TripAdvisor Support)

Oct 1, 1:54 AM

Hello,

Thank you for contacting TripAdvisor.

It appears that your review has been caught up in our automatic filters, which set aside content that we feel might require special attention. Unfortunately, I cannot go into detail about what triggered the removal, nor can I publish your post.

At this point, you may wish to review our guidelines for traveler reviews: http://www.tripadvisor.com/help/our_guidelines_for_traveler_reviews

We apologize for the inconvenience, but hope that you can appreciate that TripAdvisor works hard to ensure that the information on our site is unbiased and pure.

Best Regards,

Aldo
TripAdvisor Content Integrity

TripAdvisor Support (TripAdvisor Support)

Sep 29, 11:08 PM

from: pawsinsd@yahoo.com
memberid: 1116843
topic: Reviews – Questions about guidelines
comments: I have a serious problem about what you call your denial of my review of Chautauqua Institution ID#: 314145900.

The IRS statute of limitations is seven years. Yours seems to be over forty years. As you will not answer my requests they are now placed in a larger format outside your purview.

Non-profits are different than restaurants and hotels. Change your guidelines. It’s not families helping the family business, it’s familes who are no longer there and haven’t been for decades and want the organization to succeed. There are no profits, no stocks. It’s a dream we all had, I’ve had for fifty years and I wrote a nice piece asking people to visit and you said to this Top Contributor or “level six” a big NO. Please reconsider. I’m trashing your denial of your review and have 80,000 readers of my own and more coming. The troops are coming in and TripAdvisor better prepare. Thank you for your kind consideration of this request.

It’s simple. You are allowing a property designated by the National Trust for Historic Preservation to be destroyed. Thanks.

The Birthday Menu

For breakfast it’s simple. Bacon and eggs for my husband. Toast and jam, either apricot or fig.

Lunch is up to him.

Dinner is grilled pork tenderloins marinated in grainy mustard and dark beer from breakfast to dinner. Greens plus a corn and chorizo custard. I changed that. Sauteed yellow and green squash, and scalloped potatoes. I knew he’d like that better.

Chocolate Therapy ice cream is my birthday present. Dee

ps He bought me roses.

pps Then I got to clean hand-wash dishes and load the dishwasher fully. It was broken. Still is, after nearly two days. Ten at night, dog is out, I’m still cleaning up but about to sleep. It’s my birthday. I’m not going to clean every dish in the dishwasher because it’s broken. It will be fixed or replaced. I will see to it. Dee

Birthdays

Yes, today is mine. No. Please do not ask a woman her age. My husband and I plan to share a pint of chocolate therapy ice cream to mark the occasion.

There are gifts from everywhere. Years ago I got a fantastic cast iron pan from his mom and last week he bought me two covers for the handle so I don’t burn myself.

Dad sent me two of my favorite things, Italian soap and olive oil. The soap is orange and saffron. It smells divine. Reminds me of the Church of Soap that is my most visited piece on TripAdvisor.

I’m thinking of other birthdays. Mom’s been gone seven years now, God rest her soul. She always made a chocolate torte with almond cakes and two frostings. We always asked for it for birthdays. No-one has the recipe now. I remember it was printed on an IBM Selectric with green ink on special paper.

My husband and I think outside the box. We do not celebrate occasions, just drop by with a rose and I’ll put it in a vase you gave me years ago. Just like I know when to hold his hand walking the dog.

Good things are happening today. Cheers! Dee

p.s. If we have the chance I’d love to go to Italy for my birthday. I want to work with and teach my husband how to cook, so he can marry again after I’m gone.

pps Dad is sending me some really good wine. Great birthday gift! Private vineyards. That’s the second half of my present. I am present, sentient and still do causes. d

Big Dog Bowls and Absent-Minded Professors

A few weeks ago I ordered dog bowls for Zoe. They turned out to be cat-sized bowls and the company didn’t even want them back. I gave them to a friend.

There are always new worlds out there. Zoe’s first adult collar broke after ten years. Now, her first puppy dish set has rusted throughout after nearly 12 years. I’m now using handmade silk Martingale collars with a leather leash. They give her comfort and me control and there’s really nothing to break as she won’t be with us another 15-20 years.

Yes, we like to keep them pups. Her new bowls are larger (former are saved, stainless, and in the car for trips). It has a stand for water and food. She’ll be 12 in late January and deserved an alternative to the rusty bowl holder, and to have something a few inches up so that as she ages, she doesn’t have to bend down so much for her food. That’s what dog mom’s do.

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The absent-minded professor has been away for most of two years for work. He borrowed my car yesterday evening for a business meeting. We pay for designated parking spaces. He left home for two hours, returned at 8 p.m.

This morning I got a call. He parked in someone else’s spot. Similar space, wrong floor. So if you remember the old game Clue, the parking space stealer was the absent-minded professor, the crime was done in the garage with the wife’s car keys.

And I hit a pole trying to get out of this space that can probably hold a Mini-Cooper, not a mid-sized SUV. Hurt my bumper, just a scratch to remember this mishap. No, my husband does not drink. Only Dr. Pepper. He was just thinking of other things. That’s what he does when life is bothering him. I’d rather he think things through in the shower than in our garage. With my car, the only car our dog Zoe is allowed to be in with her orthopedic bed and cargo net.

I did send a “sorry” note through channels to whomever owns that space, as parking is precious here. I sent it on a card I bought in Florence, Florentine paper and envelope. Hope that’s enough. He made a mistake. Others have taken our parking spots in the past and that was malice, not error.

Cheerily? Dee

Moonrise

Befitting all hallow’s eve, the waning moon arose over a cloudy sky in the distance, showing its face on the water, allowing us to view stars we haven’t seen in a while due to completely cloudy skies for weeks.

We had one Halloween visitor, who spent the past few days staying with me. Miss L, the sighthound, showed up 20 minutes after she was picked up, in a handmade octopus costume. My husband is asleep with his phone on charge so I’ll see what he got in terms of photos in the morning. Purple and white. The only thing that didn’t work is the head. One may sit that on a Golden Retriever but not on a sighthound who actually was able to put her nose in my ear.

My supermarket checkers were Chewbacca and Lance Armstrong. We don’t dress up. The only clothes Zoe wears are gorgeous silk Martingale collars and one rain/snow/sleet/freezing weather coat several times a year when needed. We tried mukluks for her but she won’t do it. Instead I carry her over salted ice in winter. Do you know the old hand-cranked bucket ice cream makers? They used rock salt to make the ice colder, something that really hurts dog paws on sidewalks.

The moon and stars and water are beautiful. Miss L looked so cute and uncomfortable in her octopus outfit. She needed that treat. Have a good night. Dee

A Stitch, In Time

This is dedicated to the Oban, Scotland knitters.

First time, early with the dogs we went out in the rain. I wore a very hefty down jacket and a polar-tec vest. It was warm and wet. I dried off the dogs and fed them separately.

Then while the jacket and vest were hung to dry I knew the weather was warmer today so I took out my Oban cardigan and it kept me dry. It is made of special wool with lanolin, due to the sheep, that keeps fishermen dry at sea. It is made by special ladies who weave stories into their sweaters.

I’d love to know all the stories, they’re all about lives at sea. Fifty years ago my mother knitted me a fisherman’s sweater and it has been passed down for generations. My aunt can have a conversation without looking at what she is knitting, either a cap or booties for a preemie at the hospital I first went to for tests or a lap blanket for the local retirement home.

These are all stitches in time, over time. Thank you, knitters. Thanks PDX! Cheers, Dee

Shame

It’s OK in a human who might find himself/herself in a pickle, like a murder of passion or robbery or such.

To see a dog not come to the door to greet me when I return with nice-smelling groceries is an affront to me, as they are the most transparent creatures. We’ve had our dog Zoe nearly 12 years and she’s never lied. If she needs to go out, she needs to go out. Is she sneaky? Yes. She got an entire aged steak off our counter, but to her credit it was good for this hipless wonder to stretch her new legs for the first time and she was licking her paws, letting us know she stole it. All we could do is laugh.

This is our guest, Miss L. She wouldn’t come see me and stayed away from me. She pooped in my office. Easy to clean. Came right up and I cleaned the carpet with the doggie magic stuff. I took her out alone for a long walk to go last night and she did. She wouldn’t go this morning even though Zoe did and I praised Zoe in front of Miss L. We walked for a while and she still wouldn’t go. She couldn’t help what she did while I was gone running errands for 30 minutes.

I feel really bad for Miss L because she’s not even near me now and she and Zoe never leave my side. She’s exiled herself to the living room (on Zoe’s bed) so I think we need to go for a quick walk to snap her out of this. When I found the poop I found L, and told her she’s not in trouble. We can deal with this. People and their pets don’t call me Aunt Dee for nothing! Cheers, Dee

Situations

Thank you Ireland for reading this! ‘Tis an honor from a great-granddaughter of a wonderful woman from County Clare. To Deirdre of the Sorrows.

Over the years as one hopefully grows wiser, one reads things into what is going on. I’ve two dogs at the moment who are well-fed and comfortable but they salivate at squirrels. The “SQ’s” as we call them, are brazen these days. I take out tufts of my dog’s undercoat daily outdoors so that the birds and SQ’s can use them to warm their nest. Why she’s shedding so much when the weather’s getting cold is a mystery.

Geese have been flying around a lot and they stay the winter. Ducks may already be in warmer climes. I really do not know where the seagulls go. There is a barge (there haven’t been many lately because the sea has been angry). There are no small craft. Thank you US Coast Guard! The daily transport is done and the schooner is gone. Now they’ll take the flag that tells me where the wind is blowing.

With high winds, when all the leaves are off the trees, one must look at the water and project wind direction, not speed. One learns these things if patient and observant. Why they have to take down the flag for winter is beyond me. Perhaps no-one wants to be out there in the cold for raising and lowering. Yes, I know flag law. Raise briskly and lower ceremoniously.

Based on the randiness of the girls (dogs Great Grandma Zoe and Miss L) I think I need to find hats and gloves and make sure the zipper works better on my down jacket. The dogs love this late Fall weather. SQ’s are only a part of it.

It’s Friday. My husband is coming home. I’m going to try to make matzoh ball soup for lunch and a pot roast with caramelized onions and crushed tomatoes and beef base for dinner. Over pappardelle. As Scarlett O’Hara would say, “tomorrow is another day.” All for now at 5:13 a.m. Dee

The Dynamic Duo

I’ve a new name for our repeat canine guest, Miss L, and our Zoe. Sighthound and Chowhound. Yesterday I split a jerkey treat L’s “mom” brought over and Zoe ate it in 30 seconds. L delicately held it in her paws and spent nearly eight minutes on it.

Mom bought me (not the other kids as I was the eldest and an example) multiple etiquette books and made me learn how to set tables, fold napkins and walk with a dictionary on my head. I also had to take ballet, piano and violin lessons. Come Spring I’d take off my shoes and go barefoot down cliffs to a creek and catch crayfish and the neighbor boys would throw snakes at us, me and my little sister.

The first night with guest L, she slept on our bed with her spine against my legs all night. Zoe slept on her cushy bed on the floor. Last night it reversed. But we were watching a show last night on an L-shaped sofa. I was in the middle. They were sound asleep in the same position on either side of me, each with their head on a down pillow. Sisters of a sort, though mine is 80 in people years and L is about 15.

Our walks have been eventful. Luckily both girls have the same Martingale collars and leather leashes so other dogs have not been that big an issue. Winter is on its way so the squirrels are brazen and stand five feet away before jumping up a tree. I had to take them separately for “last chance” last night because Zoe only needed a quick one, L needed a good walk.

Indoors, they chase or play keep-away with Zoe’s favorite toy, or they play-fight with fake growls and running.Then they settle down after 10-15 minutes together and sleep.

It takes Zoe under two minutes to eat her food then I place her and her water in another room. It’s taking Miss L nearly 15 minutes now, to eat her dinner. She is so delicate. Well, not that much as she likes to pick it up, drop it on the floor then eat it. That’s why I’ve a bath mat under her water and food dishes!

Miss L is dressing up for Halloween. Her mom’s flying home to dress her and promised to bring her by for admiration and a treat. I think she has a handmade costume to be fitted. Something about a creature with eight arms……

As soon as I moved to my office at 6 a.m. they awakened and are awaiting a walk. I just have to check the temp and wind and dress appropriately and we’ll go. Here’s to a dognacious day. Dee