Our Girl Zoe

We got her, already spayed, at six weeks of age. She’ll be twelve years in January. As we traveled we’ve had her stay with friends, with sleepover caretakers, and at the vet.

She loves driving with us in my car with her orthopedic bed but some distances are too far to drive and she can’t fly anymore, according to me.

Zoe had bad hips and needed them excised at six and nine months of age then underogo therapy, which my husband and I did. Yes, he did sneak her into a pool for water exercises every night. She grew her own hips from cartilage.

As I see most dogs don’t live beyond 13 years I’m scared of her turning twelve. She passed her ten year senior blood panel and aced it. I was told by her hip surgeon in another state to skip a year and do it again at 12. That’s coming up.

I’ve euthanized two of my very ill older pets. Helped a neighbor with another, very sad, a pup with Parvo. I don’t know that my husband can handle this as he loves her too much. So do I, but I know my responsibility is her and if she lives five years more it will be up to me to decide. If her quality of life diminishes it is up to me and I’ll be there to supervise and hold her. Why? That’s my job.

Kids want chicks and bunnies for Easter. What happens to them? What happens to a pup you buy a kid for Christmas? Parents. And the chicks and bunnies die. The dog is yours for 13 years when the kids are through college and don’t want them anymore except for a pat on the head when they pass through.

We love our Zoe. My husband is a big guy who is always called in to help carry caskets, but he doesn’t want to be there when his loved one dies. Especially when I call “the shot.” To veterinarians everywhere, thank you for allowing us to work with you to make a wise decision that our pet does not need to suffer. Dee

Wheat and Chaff

I will separate them and take everything I provided to TripAdvisor and nullify it. You do not get my reviews before, and certainly not in the future. You’ve taken 87,000 readers and over 250 reviews for yourselves and are making money on them.

The WordPress venue has also been unkind to a loyal visitor and writer. I wanted to hit a certain number but will pass on that.

You’ll all be in my book. Thanks for being judgmental and nasty over the years and tell me something that happened 40 years ago is not to be published because you’ve been paid by the venue to dismiss it. Dee

Kids and Thanksgiving

Get some cheap plastic wine glasses for the kids. Add a box of graham crackers, a plastic zip-top bag, also a quart of vanilla Greek yogurt and a bunch of berries.

The kids slam the graham graham crackers inside the sealed air-tight bag. I like irregular pieces, whatever they want. The girls tend to roll, the boys use the rolling pin like a baseball bat. Our neighbors’ grandkids loved coming over to do this as a surprise for their parents and grandparents last summer. Yes, grands C and A do tend to hover at our door and whisper Zoe’s name so our old dog will come out to play or go for a walk. I figured they could make a gift for their parents and grandparents. Dessert.

Cracker crumbs, yogurt, berries. Layer. The plastic cup lets a kid know his or her composition and watch as it gets to the top.  I am hoping that one of the teens will teach her young cousins how to do this and make it fun for them.  If each little one does two, it’ll make a great dessert.

We love kids and Thanksgiving. The young cousin I’m targeting to teach the little ones will know what to do. I’m sure of it. Happy Thanksgiving! Dee

Pen and Paper

Everyone loves my Dad. He’s the one who was called on every night to play softball or touch football and everyone got to play, the baby from down the street was carried to the goal or home base.

He gave me paper today. I don’t know who packed it but as of 11 when I “last chanced” the dog it was there on my doorstep. It took me 1/2 hour to get to it. Four lovely bottles of wine, for my birthday. It is so kind of you to do so, Dad. He also sent me Italian olive oil and soaps.

Hey, Dad, I took a box cutter after I lifted the interior case out of the exterior. It took me 1/2 hour to get through the tape! You have gifted boxers. Luckily I am one as well. Apparently not as well as yours as I can undo my moving boxes with a cutter in ten seconds.

Today I received my first fountain pen. I had to work through paper and instructions and it works. It really works and does not stain as yet, and I’d love to use it for some personal letters to be sent by mail.  Isn’t that quaint. Not if you’re my Aunt, the English teacher. Luckily we moved before I had her in 9th grade for Romeo and Juliet. Thanks to Aunt L, that’s one of my favorite plays. She still will not use the Internet. I have had the original 1957 portable electric Smith-Corona typewriter since high school graduation and will not let it go so simply take the heaviest “laptop” in the world everywhere. Write, Dee

I love the family thing and have all my life, just thought being in her class would be strange. Cheers from Dee

Rusty

Ah, that dog. He is so smart. They needed to give him away and no-one wanted him because he was too smart. So he kept on tending the goats and cattle for a while.

Then one day someone wanted him. Then they said he wasn’t smart enough. Years of experience and excellence in the field and they say he doesn’t have the chops to deal with a new herd. He begs to differ with that opinion. Yes, this dog has opinions, he’s my neighbor and I know him well. We’ll see what happens.

Of course I’ll miss him on another farm but will wish him well as he meets other challenges. That’s what life is, a series of challenges. Life, health, work. We do our best and become experts. We have a Zoe dog, who has traveled nearly everywhere with us and adapted to new lifestyles.

We’re in a high-rise at present and guarding me is boring so Zoe guards the entire floor. A new pup moved in a couple of weeks ago and he’s clueless. She knows when he’s old enough they’re going to have a showdown and divide the floor. She’ll lose half her territory. She must keep our neighbors across the way. Their grandkids come by a few weekends per year and whisper her name at the door until she hears them and barks to come out and play or go for a walk or help us make parfaits for their family. I don’t know about the kids but Zoe is exhausted after a weekend with these kids.

Rusty loves new things as well, and excels at challenges, revels in them. You should have seen him with his first two goats, who were a bit weak so needed strong names. I named them after strong women. He is smart, a protector, a savior, a problem-solver and someone who knows the bottom line. Dee

Trip Advisor and Acropolis

I am a descendent of Pericles, founder of the Acropolis in Athens, Greece in 400 b.c. A visitor many times, you will not publish my reviews because Pericles was in my family.

The Parthenon, Propylaiea, Erectheion and Temple Athena Nike are to be demolished for a condo complex that will stand above ancient Greece. We must stop this demolition and condo complex. Please hear my words fellow humble visitor servant.

Would you still deny my review if a relative was involved? Kalinichta, Dee

ps This is NOT TRUE, just a lesson to a tiger that has changed its stripes. It milked us for data then used it and is throwing us away. I was a “top contributor.” Now “level six.” History has meaning as well, and does sway tourism. I like to be on the correct side of history, honoring it.

Learning, Mastering, Mentoring

When I was six I learned to turn on the oven and make one of those canned cinnamon roll thingies that you bang on the counter. I was not allowed to put it in to or take it out of the oven. At age eight I had the Betty Crocker Boys and Girls Cookbook and made theme parties for our little brother: Kings and Queens; and a Pirate Treasure Hunt. With theme cakes and costumes and…. treasure!

Yes, I learned how to use a knife, a dull one, make grilled cheese, pancakes, toast and carrot curls.

In high school I started reading Gourmet. After college I went into the rat race then quit after nearly ten years. I spent my life savings on cooking school and it has served me well for 30 years. Shop the outside of the aisles. Inside only for needed rice and dry pasta. And tinned San Marzano tomatoes if in northern climates. I made my way through James Beard, Julia Child, Simca Beck, and the best authors of local/global cuisine including Piero in Italy.

I love teaching kids how to taste new things by making 10 toppings for pizza dough I made beforehand, give them the dough to roll out and top and place in the oven. Then I have them make their own dough to rise in their refrigerator overnight. Mentoring. Learning.

Time in the field, it was done. Fingers in hot sugar syrup. 700 degree loaves of bread to rack with bare hands. I did it all and learned so much throughout the process, that continues even though I am retired from my consulting career (non-food) and make food for my husband, dog and family and friends.

I have never lost the touch in any of my careers. Research, legislation, getting a crosswalk installed, then get re-painted two years later. Food is a never-ending passion, to learn something from the produce manager or butcher is a gift, every day. I’m the only client who brings in Pedernales chili or beef carbonnade for tasting.

People may get a bit rusty in their skills but if they’ve got the heart and guts, know what they’re dealing with they can brush up in a heartbeat. Trouble is, those who don’t know, pretend to know. They can’t learn what I learned over forty years in a weekend. Are my knife skills a little slow because of arthritis, or perhaps I had another profession for 12 years? Yes. Do I know more than any young cook about cooking and other endeavors? Yes.

My husband is the son of a dairyman and a nurse. He milked cows. No, I never did (fed one twin on formula in a 5 gallon bucket because cows shun a twin). When people interview my husband and find out his background and that his parents wanted him to go to college and graduate with a premier scientific degree and leave the farm, they want to hire him right away.

We are honest, forthright, and do not toot our own horns. What you see is what you get. I tried to get our old dog a “job” visiting hospice and was told no. Why? It’s not her sunny personality that has made her our neighborhood mascot. It’s that she eats frozen raw food and they think she’ll transmit disease. She’s nearly 12 years old, 80 in “people years.” I’m not going to change her food now, as it’s the only thing she’s been willing to eat since she was six months old.

We’re a family of mentors and there’s a crop of new pups. Perhaps she should mentor them in doggie etiquette. And how to steal a steak off a cutting board. Yes, every time I sent her to doggie camp she came back with a new bad habit, especially when they placed her as a pup with the older, docile ones. Cheers! Dee

TripAdvisor Nightmare

I now have 87 K readers. Thank you.

Pure? Forgive me for laughing. I write pure reviews that after hundreds are accepted and I’m sent a tote bag as a Top Contributor you will allow a building in which I sang and won 2nd in a state championship be demolished even though it has been designated a National Historic Landmark. That concert was fifty years ago and I’m not allowed to ask people to attend this Institution and see it before it is demolished in the next few months. If I can’t write a review after fifty years what is the point of Trip Advisor. I went there. I sang. Won 2nd place. Love the amphiteater. What is wrong here is you, not me.

Not much thanks going for you today, Aldo. There is something that speaks to the people of Chautauqua, I tried to convey it to you. You would not publish it even though I asked people to visit. This weekend they choose a company to demolish the heart of this institution and you are allowing it to happen over the National Trust for Historic Preservation and the NYS historic trust. I hope that sits well with you, your conscience, as it does not with mine. Denying my post is an insult to me as a top contributor, as a person and as a conservationist.

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TripAdvisor Content Integrity (Aldo) (TripAdvisor Support)

Oct 1, 1:54 AM

Hello,

Thank you for contacting TripAdvisor.

It appears that your review has been caught up in our automatic filters, which set aside content that we feel might require special attention. Unfortunately, I cannot go into detail about what triggered the removal, nor can I publish your post.

At this point, you may wish to review our guidelines for traveler reviews: http://www.tripadvisor.com/help/our_guidelines_for_traveler_reviews

We apologize for the inconvenience, but hope that you can appreciate that TripAdvisor works hard to ensure that the information on our site is unbiased and pure.

Best Regards,

Aldo
TripAdvisor Content Integrity

TripAdvisor Support (TripAdvisor Support)

Sep 29, 11:08 PM

from: pawsinsd@yahoo.com
memberid: 1116843
topic: Reviews – Questions about guidelines
comments: I have a serious problem about what you call your denial of my review of Chautauqua Institution ID#: 314145900.

The IRS statute of limitations is seven years. Yours seems to be over forty years. As you will not answer my requests they are now placed in a larger format outside your purview.

Non-profits are different than restaurants and hotels. Change your guidelines. It’s not families helping the family business, it’s familes who are no longer there and haven’t been for decades and want the organization to succeed. There are no profits, no stocks. It’s a dream we all had, I’ve had for fifty years and I wrote a nice piece asking people to visit and you said to this Top Contributor or “level six” a big NO. Please reconsider. I’m trashing your denial of your review and have 80,000 readers of my own and more coming. The troops are coming in and TripAdvisor better prepare. Thank you for your kind consideration of this request.

It’s simple. You are allowing a property designated by the National Trust for Historic Preservation to be destroyed. Thanks.

The Birthday Menu

For breakfast it’s simple. Bacon and eggs for my husband. Toast and jam, either apricot or fig.

Lunch is up to him.

Dinner is grilled pork tenderloins marinated in grainy mustard and dark beer from breakfast to dinner. Greens plus a corn and chorizo custard. I changed that. Sauteed yellow and green squash, and scalloped potatoes. I knew he’d like that better.

Chocolate Therapy ice cream is my birthday present. Dee

ps He bought me roses.

pps Then I got to clean hand-wash dishes and load the dishwasher fully. It was broken. Still is, after nearly two days. Ten at night, dog is out, I’m still cleaning up but about to sleep. It’s my birthday. I’m not going to clean every dish in the dishwasher because it’s broken. It will be fixed or replaced. I will see to it. Dee

Birthdays

Yes, today is mine. No. Please do not ask a woman her age. My husband and I plan to share a pint of chocolate therapy ice cream to mark the occasion.

There are gifts from everywhere. Years ago I got a fantastic cast iron pan from his mom and last week he bought me two covers for the handle so I don’t burn myself.

Dad sent me two of my favorite things, Italian soap and olive oil. The soap is orange and saffron. It smells divine. Reminds me of the Church of Soap that is my most visited piece on TripAdvisor.

I’m thinking of other birthdays. Mom’s been gone seven years now, God rest her soul. She always made a chocolate torte with almond cakes and two frostings. We always asked for it for birthdays. No-one has the recipe now. I remember it was printed on an IBM Selectric with green ink on special paper.

My husband and I think outside the box. We do not celebrate occasions, just drop by with a rose and I’ll put it in a vase you gave me years ago. Just like I know when to hold his hand walking the dog.

Good things are happening today. Cheers! Dee

p.s. If we have the chance I’d love to go to Italy for my birthday. I want to work with and teach my husband how to cook, so he can marry again after I’m gone.

pps Dad is sending me some really good wine. Great birthday gift! Private vineyards. That’s the second half of my present. I am present, sentient and still do causes. d