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A Great Southern Lady

I’ve refrained from saying anything but hope her husband will forgive me this personal post. Now we get into the southern thing. Nanny’s husband’s sister was a great friend to her. As a new member of the family I’d heard stories of this smart, elegant lady. She was a force to be reckoned with, a human tornado, all in the best sense. This post does not cover anything but my impressions.

Finally, after a year or two of marriage, the immediate family hosted a surprise party for Jim’s younger brother’s 30th birthday. We’d spent a couple of days cooking and the last day moving everything to the site and finalizing the dishes for 100 guests. Near the end of service, I was sweaty and not fit to mingle with fellow guests when a woman walked in the door. The crowd hushed. Hair done, fully made up, jewel-toned suit, VJ walked in and made her way to the kitchen.

I knew it was her when she walked into the room. She walked up to me and said “You must be Dee. I’ve wanted to meet you.” I responded in kind. Last year I organized a concert for Nanny’s birthday and VJ and her dear husband were the subterfuge to get Nanny to the surprise venue. A few months later she was gone.

When I was growing up, there were very few female role models to look up to, and mine were Amelia Earhart, Eleanor Roosevelt, Annie Oakley (she was the only one with a book I could read), Maria Tallchief and Isadora Duncan. If I’d been VJ’s student she would have been my role model. There are more female role models, but most are not on the news or easily found. My violin, piano and choir teachers are hidden gems and some are still in touch 40 years later.

Perhaps men have been taught to mentor in a business-specific way. Women do it their own way and it’s not acknowledged or women are not allowed to go above that glass ceiling to have the “right” to mentor others. That said, there have been many female mentors in my life and I’m glad that VJ provided that gift for her students. Please join me in a heartfelt thanksgiving to her immediate and extended family. Dee

Chautauqua County Produce

As I started this blog 14 months ago I never thought that this post “How To Eat A Concord Grape” would take off and go platinum, in my world that is. This is the most viewed post on the site!

Well, I don’t think any grapes grow near where we’re living now. As I was growing up, though, we’d pick wild strawberries from our land and pay a farmer for us kids to pick blueberries up the road a piece. My aunt had a cherry tree that no longer exists but my younger siblings were tasked to pick cherries each year. We’d drive down the hill when I was a kid and go to Paul’s family’s farm stand and buy fruit and hang out and eat a couple of pints while chatting, during the summer.

Chautauqua is especially known for its grapes and apples. There are other fruits and vegetables that will endure the short growing season. I loved our home there and living there as we were allowed to be tomboys for the first time! Before then we always wore skirts and lace anklets and Mary Janes. After that we wore shorts in the summer and bare feet and loved it all! Except when our neighbors placed a cherry bomb or black snake down the back of our shirts as we were running away!

This is to Juni, who came and stayed with us. Whipporwill deserves an award. It is a beautiful song that I’m trying to learn on my own, without crying over my mother’s death. It’s tough to learn and tougher not to cry. I’ll get the lyrics down first from the CD and keep working on the others. Joe & Margie are with us and enjoying the home tour and other activities like the Statehouse, Mormon Tabernacle Choir, Park City and Ogden and the museums at the train depot.

Time to go to sleep. Much to do tomorrow. I think Chautauqua County will always be my spiritual home and if my ashes could be scattered anywhere, it’s in the Enchanted Forest. Only my sister and I know where that special place is, and she’s not talking! Cheers, Dee.

An Eocene Welcome

Finally the Greater Sandhill cranes, prehistoric birds, sounded out a tribute at 6:27 this morning. I’d like to think it a welcome to our vocal, guitar playing, songwriting Western gal visitor, Ms. Juni Fisher. Also hail to her on the journeys to come. When Zoe and I hit the trail this morning about 6:40 we heard warning noises which means we were only a few feet from the cranes. The grasses are so tall that we can’t see them. Another sign. Jim’s folks will be here for a week, in two days and I hope the cranes come out and can be seen and heard.

I’d like to thank Juni for re-kindling my interest in playing music. It’s been a long time since I’ve held a violin or touched the keys on a piano. She asked why I didn’t call before I bought a guitar. It was an impulse purchase of a learning guitar and I had no idea there were different sizes, woods, tones et al! I just went with what I had for the first couple of months and did research on a better guitar that fit me. I believe I’ve found it and she agrees. But she’s right. I should have called as there were any number of mistakes that could have been made. As it is she just said the neck should be adjusted a bit.

Last year pdxknitterati, a fellow blogger from the west coast, when told that Jim sang El Paso in a restaurant in Scotland at our going-away dinner, told me of Red Velvet Slippers, written and sung by Juni Fisher, a cowgirl poet. I downloaded the song and immediately my husband and I started making preparations for a surprise for his grandmother’s birthday. Juni came and sang and wowed everyone. We’re sorry pdx wasn’t there to join us but I sent her an inscribed CD.

Visitor season has begun! Jim’s folks arrive in two days and I have to run everything through “Neat Receipts” and box them and clear my desk so we can have a dining table. I’m not a shopper but yesterday we all went to the market and it was fun! We didn’t HAVE to get anything so it was fun to browse and everyone ended up with a special treat and lunch was very good at Bandit’s. Jim’s showing signs of a cold so I need to go check on him and feed Zoe. Cheers, Dee

Dirges

My mother said, even when I was in high school, that I liked to listen to dirges.  Sad songs.  As this flood of music comes back to my brain and to my heart I hear a lot of ladies’ names: Angie (Rolling Stones): Sara (Dylan); and happier ones like Amie (Pure Prairie League).

Then there are the war tunes, including Brothers in Arms (Joan Baez) and spirituals (Let Us Break Bread Together).

And we can’t forget when the levee ran dry, and the three men I admired most took the last train for the coast.  That must have been the day the music died.

When I bought my new guitar, bad purchase – a dreadnaught – but it sounds nice, I asked for a  beginner book and was steered towards the Carpenters. I told Doc that’s a slippery slope and I don’t want to go there so started with Dylan and a country song book.

We spent a few months in Scotland and our favorite restaurant was right down the block, Italian, run by Rocco, formerly an Italian Carabinieri (cop).  Our last evening we exchanged gifts.  Rocco gave us little pastries in limoncello from Sicily.  We gave him a classic Sinatra CD “Come Fly With Me” and ended the night with the entire restaurant singing “Deep in the Heart of Texas” after Jim sang the first few verses of “El Paso.” [Marty Robbins]

That led to a much more slippery slope.  Our last evening in Scotland was memorable, even though we had to get up at 3:00 to get on the road to London and home.

Perhaps the” London Homesick Blues” got to us and we had to go home to the Armadillo, sweet country music from Amarillo to Abilene….”  I think Jerry Jeff should change it to Aberdeen. Perhaps if he wasn’t in England, he’d like the countryside more, especially from Scotland, an ornery bunch if there ever was one.  Sign me up!

I do like anthems, dirges, songs that mean something so Mom was correct.  I’d ask her to listen to a song, even early Beatles, and she didn’t understand.  Then came a lot of rock, plus James Taylor, Dave Mason, Carole King, Dan Fogelberg, Art Garfunkel, young Jimmy Buffett, Kenny Loggins et al.

I think people who write, perform and listen to this music must not eat, bring own veg food or chomp on the local grub.  There’s an idea, follow a band to find out what they eat, then go out as an advance person and make it healthier.  Not me, I’ve never been a Band Aid.  But if you’re hurt I probably have something in my car to fix it.

Please know I’m going to use what I’ve made of your songs to play to put babies to sleep and for family and friends to sing a song or two over the holidays.  Thank you songwriters and singers, nautical wheelers, Dee

Ancestry

Jim’s great aunt died suddenly early yesterday morning.  After the morning phone calls and family arrangements for flowers etc. I started thinking of what a wonderful and vivacious woman this was. Aunt Velma Jean and her husband took a trip up to see Nanny last Christmas to take Nanny to lunch.  They really lured her next door for the surprise Juni Fisher concert!  That was the last time we saw her.

Yesterday I was thinking of our family so did a trial with an ancestry site for two weeks.  I did some of the basics and found out something my father never had in his years of research: his mother’s passage from Hamburg, Germany to NYC in 1923.  I was able to send him a copy of the passage documentation of her adopting a new country.  I spent a couple of hours on it yesterday, no time today.  I didn’t know the program at all so made many mistakes and it took me ten times the amount of time for an entry to say “whoops” and try to fix it.

Food and family go together naturally.  Otherwise why would Thanksgiving dinner be important?  It’s only a turkey.  I hope results of my search lead to more family recipes and regional foods from the far-flung areas that marked even my parents and grandparents.

The next step is to interview our remaining relatives to glean more information from their searches.  So I’m on a hunt for the best rouladen, Rosti potatoes, plus English, Irish, French-Canadian recipes out there.  Here’s to a great weekend!  Dee

News

Three great things happened today. First you’ll all be happy to know that Pippi Longstocking is alive and well and living on my head.

Pippi's hat

Pippi's hat

This wouldn’t have happened if I hadn’t met pdxknitterati, who also led us to cowgirl poet Juni Fisher who played a surprise party for Jim’s grandmother’s birthday last fall. She heard I liked it so sent it off in the mail, God bless her. Pippi will come in handy later this week when the snow flies again. It is beautifully knitted and will be cherished forever.

Today, in the rain and dampness I kept the heat at 68 and turned on the fire for 15-20 minutes to take off the chill. I also got a chance to wear my Arran fishermans’ cardigan from Oban, Scotland and sent them a poem as well.

For years Jim’s been saying “anything you want to do, anything that makes you happy.” I called him today for reiteration of same. I bought a guitar, case, pitch pipe, and book and may take lessons. What I learned in high school I all but forgot. Other than a G chord I’m useless. My fingers don’t work as they used to when I was seventeen! I lent my 8th grade Christmas gift to a boyfriend after college and he kept it, perhaps as service rendered after two dates and I wouldn’t… you know.

Third is that we finally got Jim’s W-2 so I can finalize our taxes and not punt or send an unnecessary check. So, there’s more work to do.

All in all, with rain, it’s been a good day. Cook well tonight. Cheers, Dee.

To Juni Fisher, Songwriter

I went into a country store today and was very conservative in my selections. Lucinda helped me, and what a help she was.

Inspired

Inspired

But I got this and there is a vest that I really want that I need to think about.

First of all, Juni Fisher is not just a song writer, she’s a story teller from way back when, a woman who names inanimate objects and tells stories about them. She’s also a singer, with a voice as clear as a bell, and a guitar picker. And a right nice gal.

I walked into this store wanting to look for Jim but ended up looking for me. My thought is that I’ll end up with something we could renew our vows in, someday after Nanny’s surprise has worn off. Then we can hit her again.

Boots will have to be specially made for me, perhaps for Jim as well. Hat for me would work but brother John has to weigh in on hats for both, as Jim’s head is too big – must be that darned big brain of his.

Yesterday, Nanny took us for a ride in our car, as she’s looking to buy a car and we just got ours a few weeks ago. Jim spent a lot of time adjusting her seat et al, but when we got on the road she was enjoying herself and we always love her company.

Let’s hope Juni got home safe and has some time with family and friends before her next tour. We enjoyed meeting her, spending some down time with her and listening to her tales both spoken and sung.

She brought me home. Three taps of the horn – thanks Mom! Keep on cooking, folks, Dee

Home Again

We had an uneventful trip home today, my favorite kind of car trip without nasty traffic. We stopped en route to purchase more memory for my computer (Jim) and pick up the dog from the kennel (aka dog spa) with $30 penalty for Sunday pickup. Jim also picked up homemade jams and beef jerky at exit ??? I don’t recall, but we got gasoline there.

Our home isn’t home unless all of us are in it. It’s too quiet without Zoe trying to trip me with an armful of laundry, so we had to pick her up right away after picking up more memory…. Perhaps as we get older we can pick up more human memory, but I don’t think the pharmaceutical companies have that in mind.

Many things went through my mind, especially the last song Juni Fisher sang and dedicated to Nanny, The Whipporwhill Song, in which a mother calls for her children and brings them home. When we moved from our small village out to what I now recognize to be a “Gentleman’s Farm” out in the country when I was eight years old, my sister and I toughened up right away and went toe-to-toe with our two neighbor boys near our age.

We learned within a week to climb a ragged rope 150′ down to the creek. The people who sold us their unfinished house, that we spent three years finishing, also sold us an old station wagon. When there was fifteen minutes to dinner on the table, Mom would go out to our parking lot and hit the car horn three long blasts. That meant come up the cliff, get cleaned up, wash your hands and be at the table. We did so right away.

When Juni sang her Whipporwhill Song I was in tears remembering my mother who died just weeks ago. My song was three car blasts to get us up from the creek. I guess we never learned how to whistle or sing a bird’s song. The old station wagon used to be my bird song. But I now have my home. Dee

Nanny’s Surprise…

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The family has kept this secret for months! This afternoon over twenty of us joined in a belated birthday concert by Juni Fisher, The Western Music Association’s 2008 Songwriter of the Year. Ms. Fisher regaled us with songs and stories, then we ate supper and went our separate ways.

Nanny was surprised and very pleased, and it’s an pleasure to organize something to honor all she is to this family that I’m proud to have married into.

This project began months ago with the Chuck Wagon Throwdown on this site. Thanks to pdxknitterati for bringing “Red Velvet Slippers” and Juni Fisher to my attention. To have a private concert in our cousin’s brand new home with just a handful of guests was incredibly special.

Juni has four CD’s out and Jim and I bought them all and will listen en route home tomorrow morning. Just check out http://www.junifisher.net for information on her tours and history et al.

Thanks for hosting, Sharon and Ken. Jim’s Mom Margie made terrific sandwiches (ham, roast beef or chicken salad) on her infamous potato rolls, plus her equally renowned Italian cream cake. I added store-bought panforte to expose these Southern palates to more worldly tastes. I also made a large lemon and berry trifle that practically disappeared. A British pudding dessert, who would imagine its success!

All in all, it was a lovely weekend. Hope yours is as much fun. Dee