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Love

It’s the most powerful emotion, be it parent, spouse or friend. Then there is trust. If you’ve both you’ve hit the million dollar lottery.

Being apart for a long time can lead to mistrust and bad feelings. Hang in there. Know that everything will be OK. That’s what I’m doing.

As one who’s done performances as a kid and speeches as an adult I have butterflies for him today teaching a four-hour seminar. I even wanted him to get snacks (of course I would have done so but he’s 2,500 miles away) and he did not do so.

I know he’ll do great, and I did my bit but when microphones and television are in play I freeze a bit. I’m so proud of him. I hope to hear good news later tonight. Cheers! Dee

Jeff Bonforte Yahoo

You’re in charge of my service that has been interrupted for weeks. I’ve now spent 38 hours trying to get it restored.

I’ve free Yahoo plus paid pop.mail service. Please help me. You only have one phone number and hang up before I can be connected. There is something in the world called customer service. I would recommend you look it up. Perhaps an online dictionary.

With hope you’ll receive this request as you won’t answer the phone and I’ve had to log on to another service to email you. No response for days, of course. Dee

ps I’ve 72,000 readers and will keep this up.

Reconcliation

In the first 500 photos my brother sent me tonight there are a few I want to print and frame.

What bothers me is that I do not recognize my mother for at least two decades, and that may be due to being away at college and work or remembering her as a child. She always looked sad in the photos.

These photos show that she may have loved me for a short time, I’m the eldest. Her older sister used love to rein in her kids just a bit. It worked, very well, and our method did not. Aunt J loved her kids, all of us and her grandkids.

A year before my mother died of cancer, as did her older sister, she told me she hated me. She was taking the disease out on me, which should be OK, but she said I never should have been born, and that still hurts.

My husband and I spent a week at hospice with her and I even got her last rites, that’s another story. For now it’s good that in her first photo album online there are a few photos of me that were included, Thanks from your first born, Dad, Dee

Love at First Sight

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I just got photos tonight from the early days. I knew I always loved dogs and this will prove it. My father is holding me back as I reach out. I’ve never seen this photo before. It touches my heart as my father is holding me and protecting me and all I want to do is touch this dog.

This explains a lot of what I’ve done as a volunteer to help dogs and then cats, it makes sense. Cheers from Dee

Brothers

It’s now pouring rain here and the dog won’t want to go out to be involuntarily wet. Jumping into a swimming pool or great stream are voluntary efforts.

Lightning. That’s going to make Last Chance for dog Zoe interesting. I just got off the phone after a long conversation with my blood brother. We shared business and personal stories. I wish we could see him, he’s so smart and funny and I miss him.

My brother-in-law is also a brother who calls me more than my blood brother. He calls me “sis” and we talk about things as he drives. Another smart guy with a caring heart.

I think a lot of problems I had as a child would have been erased if I was not the eldest and had a big brother. We were in farm country and my sister and I used words, everyone else used intimidation or fists.

Now I’ve a dear husband, two brothers and I’ve the words to protect myself. Cheers, Dee

Customer “Service”

I’ve been on the phone trying to get my Yahoo popmail service back up for days. They answer the phone and tell you you’ll never get through because they may cut you off, then they do after five minutes. We pay for this service.

I’ve had Yahoo for many years and have never not met such a rude service. I had to get Gmail in order to email Yahoo.

Sick and twisted, I know. Yahoo, I’m going after the Board and Execs, trust me. You don’t treat Dee this way. Battle! Dee

Essential Pantry

is a series. Just look it up on my site. Each part of the series has recipes to go along. All you do is look up article #1. There’s more and it took me a lot of time to put this together.

Just start with essential pantry #2 and go from there. A thought. Thanks for reading. Dee

Propinquity

I had several favorite classes in college and some ridiculous ones, as in when we were learning required philosophy classes and were told not to think, only spout out what the priest said. Philosophy without thinking. I knew it was bad at age 18 but didn’t want to have to take it again so aced it.

My favorites were Art History 1 and 2, Renaissance and Reformation, and Marriage and Family. The first three were taught by a favorite priest, long gone, Fr. John. The last is by my favorite professor, Fr. C.

Propinquity is nearness, it means marrying the kid next door or two blocks away. But they had to use the word to make it sound serious and meaningful. I asked “why can’t you just say nearness?” That’s how I met my husband 13 years ago. We lived a mile apart and met at a restaurant by chance at lunch. He called the next day, took my hand and so far has never let go. And all of a sudden I cherished the term propinquity.

Marriage and Family was taught by my chosen adviser, and it also included a campus favorite, The Barbie Lecture. Fr. C talked about the measurements of the doll vs. real women. She would be 7′ 4″ tall, etc. The class was about not seeing just the body, but the person. My mother and I were never close but she never let my younger sister or me to have a Barbie doll. We read and went to the library instead, and watched Walter Cronkite at dinner and Jacques Cousteau when we didn’t want to go to bed.

Maybe sometime I’ll tell you about a night class on deviant behavior. But you have to be really good in the meantime…… Cheers, Dee

Our Garden

Herbs, anyone?

Herbs, anyone?

Thinking

That was against my religion, at least the one I was brought up in. My sister said it best when declining the 52 envelopes for contributions, telling Sister we went to the church down the street.

I ended up going to a Franciscan college not knowing so, but am better for it as I had two great profs, both priests, one dead and another dying who wants me to fly in to have lunch.

In the end I’ve no love for the Church, only those in it. The HRC Church told me not to think. That was against MY religion. Just follow and Jesus will show you the way. I’m not a follower of those who tell me I’m not smart, cannot have any influence in the Church in which I was baptised and am told not to think for myself.

God, I do not believe in organized religion. I’ve had enough time on earth to know you are here and that I do other things besides church to know that I care for others. For a priest in philosophy to say don’t think, just repeat my answers was the first step in my journey and it has been a long and bumpy ride.

Today I believe in redemption, being an honest and good person and in serving people and animals (Franciscan). Let us hope that is enough for me an my small family, Dee

p.s. Yesterday James Garner died. God rest his soul. Years ago I knew his daughter Gigi from a small park on the left coast. She’s done well and her father will be remembered from Maverick to Rockford to Tank in Space Cowboys, thanks for the memories. Perhaps someday I’ll tell the Space Cowboys story from his daughter…….. d