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Odd Jobs

Yes, I’ve had many. The first my parents let me take was at age 15, teaching gymnastics. I did it for young kids to pay for my training by an Olympian coach.  I rarely saw her so helped kids in the neighborhood with another coaching job.

During college I resurfaced clay tennis courts, and took reservations for an historic wood hotel. Not at the hotel, in a cleaned-out storefront with no heat in mid-winter, no computers, just a phone and pencil and blueprints of rooms.

For a few weeks I helped a state help potential high school graduates who could not complete their $200 state scholarship application without multiple errors. I corrected their applications. My school had one error. Many schools had so many errors I knew there was a gap in education. I justified that role by trying to help education, yes I tried, not hard enough to bridge the gap. My boss, Ned, stuck to schedule and wouldn’t let me take no lunch and take a longer break. It was for a job interview, but I didn’t tell him that, and quit at break time and landed a job working for the speaker of the house as an analyst for several areas in which I learned expertise. And no, Ned, I didn’t have to put my name on every pencil and guard them with my life because I had 34 million lives in my hands every time I picked up a pencil or pen. I made a lot more money, too.

Out of work a bit a friend got me a two-week gig. It was this Indian couple who sold Pashmina scarves. It was at their home and they were preparing for an outdoor presentation. Everything was done in their bedroom, creepy. We did the event in rain and cold and the wife even lent me a scarf to keep warm. I left with them owing me $300. The whole situation was too scary to confront.

Returning from a culinary apprenticeship that was wonderful, I got work at a great hotel. I had to walk in through the basement, put on the pants and jacket of a 300 lb. man who was fired the day before, didn’t know I had to punch in (never have, never will) and spent the day, after spending all my savings on cooking school, scraping off dried cheese from onion soup bowls after they’d gone through the dishwasher. Eight hours. I went to interviews and got a job the next day so quit on the spot. No sink, no hand washing. Canned everything, I will never stay at that hotel.

For several years I hung coats, passed hors d’oeuvres and gave out name tags. This is a good job. They wouldn’t hire me because I didn’t qualify for work study. I could volunteer, though. Volunteering is another long story but I’ll give you a prequel.

After preparations, coats, name tags, food and drink and clean-up my roommate and I were taken out to a local diner by the development director for french fries and soda or coffee. It beat anything we would have had in the cafeteria hours earlier.

Don’t worry, my volunteer exploits will be lurid and there’s a potential crime involved. Cheers! Dee

Just a Trifle

There was a unanimous vote from New Years hosts (our Christmas guests) that I make Trifle, again. I did and it was enjoyed by all the guests.

Years ago my husband asked me last-minute to make a berry trifle for the office. I did. I put it together at six in the morning for a 9:00 meeting.

Instead of saying “Thank you, dear” he told me it was a lot easier than stopping for doughnuts.

Ah, just a trifle. Dee

Update

Christmas eve and my new desk is still messing with me. The keyboard slides around on the glass despite measures to keep it still.

The weather is warm for this time of year but it may snow today. I must drive a long distance to pick up my husband at the airport and he wants me to take along the dog as she loves traveling. Yesterday was his birthday. Tomorrow we’ve dinner for guests and I’ve much to do before leaving for the airport.

Shopping for last-minute items like cream, but also I ran out of gallon zip-top bags. Also prepping anything I can so tomorrow is easier.

Today I found and re-ironed an ancient handmade family tablecloth with lots of linen and lace. It’s on our glass table right now and looks like I’m a great aunt. I love it and have used it before in a different space but I prefer the lean lines and meld of older and contemporary that we have here.

I believe I’ll serve Christmas dinner on a bare glass table with my mother’s china and serviettes from my mother-in-law hand-embroidered with drawings and names of herbs, all expertly ironed. Hors d’oeuvres will be my marinated Kalamata olives, toasted and spiced Marcona almonds and a French and Italian cheese plate. On hand are my mother’s “nut bowl” which I’ll use for crackers, and two Greek olive wood planks from whence they were purchased, for the cheese. Olives and almonds will find another venue, bowls from somewhere.

Dessert will be a trifle with lemon curd and berries, set off by pannettone. I cannot make it until today as I need to place beverages and trifle on the balcony to refrigerate. The capon has been in the refrigerator over 12 hours and is still completely frozen. Mon Dieu!

Must take the dog out now. Duties. I’m glad we’ll get another two minutes of sunshine a day because I really don’t like having to use a flashlight to pick up after her in the dark. Yes, we do the doody thing, because it’s right. That’s another story. Happy Christmas Eve for those of you who celebrate it. Dee

Improved Posting Experience

Now you, WordPress, are harassing me to sign in again to not get your Improved Posting Experience.

You reject my password repeatedly and will not allow me access. I’ve a number of readers around the world and they may not like the fact that you’re shutting me out as a writer. I may not make it to the head of a rope line these days but there are minds at stake here.

When I began years ago you championed writers. Now you go with flash and not substance. If I was 20 and clubbing you’d be with me, instead I’ve experience and a mind and a willingness and ability to write and all you do is ask for my password and dismiss me.

Readers, this month I turned 57 and you like my recipes and stories. Please ask WordPress to let me back in. Cheers! Dee

Corn “Quiche”

Speaking of dreaming, I dreamed up a corn bread pudding that is different than one I’ve made before. All I have to do now is make it and give some to my favorite corn pudding taster for a test drive. Later this week, much to do. Cheers, Dee

Love

It’s the most powerful emotion, be it parent, spouse or friend. Then there is trust. If you’ve both you’ve hit the million dollar lottery.

Being apart for a long time can lead to mistrust and bad feelings. Hang in there. Know that everything will be OK. That’s what I’m doing.

As one who’s done performances as a kid and speeches as an adult I have butterflies for him today teaching a four-hour seminar. I even wanted him to get snacks (of course I would have done so but he’s 2,500 miles away) and he did not do so.

I know he’ll do great, and I did my bit but when microphones and television are in play I freeze a bit. I’m so proud of him. I hope to hear good news later tonight. Cheers! Dee

Jeff Bonforte Yahoo

You’re in charge of my service that has been interrupted for weeks. I’ve now spent 38 hours trying to get it restored.

I’ve free Yahoo plus paid pop.mail service. Please help me. You only have one phone number and hang up before I can be connected. There is something in the world called customer service. I would recommend you look it up. Perhaps an online dictionary.

With hope you’ll receive this request as you won’t answer the phone and I’ve had to log on to another service to email you. No response for days, of course. Dee

ps I’ve 72,000 readers and will keep this up.

Reconcliation

In the first 500 photos my brother sent me tonight there are a few I want to print and frame.

What bothers me is that I do not recognize my mother for at least two decades, and that may be due to being away at college and work or remembering her as a child. She always looked sad in the photos.

These photos show that she may have loved me for a short time, I’m the eldest. Her older sister used love to rein in her kids just a bit. It worked, very well, and our method did not. Aunt J loved her kids, all of us and her grandkids.

A year before my mother died of cancer, as did her older sister, she told me she hated me. She was taking the disease out on me, which should be OK, but she said I never should have been born, and that still hurts.

My husband and I spent a week at hospice with her and I even got her last rites, that’s another story. For now it’s good that in her first photo album online there are a few photos of me that were included, Thanks from your first born, Dad, Dee

Love at First Sight

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I just got photos tonight from the early days. I knew I always loved dogs and this will prove it. My father is holding me back as I reach out. I’ve never seen this photo before. It touches my heart as my father is holding me and protecting me and all I want to do is touch this dog.

This explains a lot of what I’ve done as a volunteer to help dogs and then cats, it makes sense. Cheers from Dee

Brothers

It’s now pouring rain here and the dog won’t want to go out to be involuntarily wet. Jumping into a swimming pool or great stream are voluntary efforts.

Lightning. That’s going to make Last Chance for dog Zoe interesting. I just got off the phone after a long conversation with my blood brother. We shared business and personal stories. I wish we could see him, he’s so smart and funny and I miss him.

My brother-in-law is also a brother who calls me more than my blood brother. He calls me “sis” and we talk about things as he drives. Another smart guy with a caring heart.

I think a lot of problems I had as a child would have been erased if I was not the eldest and had a big brother. We were in farm country and my sister and I used words, everyone else used intimidation or fists.

Now I’ve a dear husband, two brothers and I’ve the words to protect myself. Cheers, Dee