Sisyphus

For anyone who eschews the Greek/Roman gods and stories, such as tales of Odysseus, shame on you. They’ll let you make comparisons and stories of your own throughout your life!

Sisyphus rolled a heavy rock uphill, and every time he got near the top, it would tumble down again. So his fate is to push that rock every day and wait for it to fall. That was me today. I’m dealing with bureaucratic, procedural, and emotional fallout following a layoff.

Many of the things I had to accomplish today are partially done, were horrible and I stood on my tippy-toes and made things 50-75% right. I’m exhausted and still have to pay bills and make dinner.

For example, the former employer sent information that during the past few years when he was hired full-time he went eight months without health insurance. The original administrator said that was our last healthcare program and she can’t provide proof of prior insurance under the same employer, insurance that we were paying for through regular payroll deductions since day one.

So I talked to boss-man, who found six of those last months and is working with HR to reconcile the rest, that they both proved WE paid for, in order to get a revised certificate of continuous healthcare that may allow us to get insurance after next week. So that may mean the employer stopped payment?

All the information that HR gave us on one sheet was either misinformation or outright lies. I’ve called every number on that page and only one has not gotten back to me. And here I go, pushing that rock up the hill day by day.

 

6 responses to “Sisyphus

  1. It’s for better or worse, and just now we realized today is our 9th wedding anniversary! No card, dinner or anything. That’s the way it is with Sisyphus. We hugged in the hallway before taking the dog for a walk. But as Etta would’ve said, At last….

  2. He bought me pizza so I wouldn’t have to cook. What a sweetie!

  3. When all is said and done, I want us to end up on our feet, financially, and for my husband to say his spouse is strong, tough and willing to fight for our family. We are both working every day toward that goal.

  4. 9 years, that’s a good thing.

  5. It is, Margie, there was so much going on that we actually forgot, I forgot, expect J to forget, he’s not much for numbers, math genius et al.

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