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What Would Michelangelo Buanarotti Think?

Cardinals do not know to whom to pray, so go to the Sistine Chapel at the Vatican in order to elect the next pope because a master, Michelangelo, defined it for them. Perhaps it shows all the Christians think that there is birth, death, and many stories in between. Perhaps a deity.

I have never been Catholic. Yes, I was baptised, and had my holy communion. I had questions about the church early on. I didn’t know about other religions yet or about how to question faith or the existence of God.

Today in the background the Sistine Chapel is about to close for conclave and I am in tears, because this is a venerable exercise where every eligible cardinal swears to be true to the new pope. In my sarcasm, I wonder why they deny Cardinals over age 80 to vote but still be in their current posts.

I must give thanks to my favorite fathers of the Roman Catholic Church, who guided me through college, both Franciscans: Fr. John (deceased) and Fr. Cap.

A nun told me at age six that because my mother had the flu and didn’t drive us to church I was doomed to hell (a mortal, not venial sin). Imagine telling that to a little kid. I went to public school, because it was a small village and the public school was better. We still had to walk to church school once a week and go to Mass on Sundays. Now I have to thank neighbor Gil.

Then, through a twist of fate I went to a liberal arts college that turned out to be Franciscan and I started to go to church again, occasionally, and even started to go downtown to the one of the last Latin masses in our town.

The last Cardinals are taking the oath now and one is from my new town, never knew we had a Cardinal here.

I have a prayer: May this unprecedented incident of the Pope’s resignation and his continued existence not influence or undermine this Conclave; May a worthy person take this seat; May the serious flaws in judgment and management, especially of sexual abuse, be remedied in all ways possible; and may the Church finally recognize the role of women as Priests and more reproductive freedom for faithful Catholics.

Yes, I’ve thought a lot about God and religion over many years and find they have little to do with each other. Certain aspects of this election do intrigue me, however, because that’s how I grew up. The priest would not allow my parents to marry (my father was a Lutheran) until he relinquished religious care to my mother.

It’s interesting that the talking heads say this sounds “political” but it cannot be because it’s somewhat “godly” because everything is politics, everywhere. Even you work at a convenience store, it’s all politics. In nominus patri, Dee

Father McGuinness

I hope he doesn’t mind my telling this story. He knows an abbreviated version of it. When my parents were to be married (Dad was Lutheran) they promised their children would be raised in the Roman Catholic Church.

An earlier story may be relevant to the main issue. At age seven, my younger sister told a nun at CCD (every week we left school early to go to religious instruction) she didn’t need the box with 52 envelopes for giving for the next year. Each envelope had our names on them so they could total our gifts.

The nun insisted. My sister said no. Finally my sister said “I won’t take them because we go to St. Patrick’s on Sunday, not St. Joseph’s!” Oops.

Move forward to four years ago and our mother is in wonderful hospice care. We know she only has a few days to live and her morphine intake is increasing to alarming rates for someone who is down to perhaps 70 lbs.

At dinner I mention a priest in front of my three siblings and my husband. Years ago my mother had said to a priest that if she wanted him, she’d go to church, if she wants a doctor, she’s in the hospital, which she was at the time.

They all said no. No religion, no priests. It took several hours but I finally got them to agree that if Mom said yes to a priest for last rites, it was her decision. Afterwards, to lighten the mood, I made a joke and spoke fake Irish and said I was Father McGuinness (my brother was sipping a Guinness at the time).

The next morning I visited my mother, and everyone else came as well. I talked with the chaplain and told her of our discussion and said my mother didn’t like me very much, never had, so could she broach the discussion of a priest.

She did and my mother said “yes” immediately. I thought she had little time left and the priest had just left for the day. I asked the chaplain to get him back.

An hour later, I left her room to use the restroom and a priest came towards me and said, “You must be Dee, my name is Father McGuinness.” We went into her room and he performed last rites and we all said that we loved her. Unbeknownst to me, my husband said, “I’ll take care of her.”

Fr. M turned out to be the priest of the parish she joined before she got cancer. I gave them a small donation (we were just out of Hurricane Ike) and he called me and I thanked him personally and told him this story.

We just moved to a very Catholic city, I try to stay in touch with my college sociology mentor, Fr. Cap, and there are reasons things happen. I know that my husband is here for a job. I’m here for another reason and someone will tell me what that is and I’ll know what I’m meant to do here.

I stopped by a church for the architecture and while the doors were locked, the plaque outside said the parish was “Three Holy Women.” I’m not religious, but have ended up at out-of-the-way churches giving women money to take care of feral cats, while studying Annunciation paintings in Florence.

I can’t call my mentor or Fr. McG, it’ll come to me. Yes, say that I’m crazy. There’s a lot going on and I need to do taxes, move, fly to an important burial all this month! Who knows. All I can say is thanks for reading and writing! Dee

Condoms

I remember leaving public elementary school Wednesday afternoons for CCD (Catholic doctrine, never knew what it meant). One day around third grade one gal was goaded by her cool friends to ask how Mary was a virgin. The nun was very flustered and the next week a priest came in to explain it to us.

It made no sense to me, real sex (I didn’t have a clue until my little sister told me two years later) or virtual sex through a divine being. It was all mixed up in the crazy RC religion so didn’t really matter as I competed to win scapulas for the five miracles of whatever.

No sex education ever took place, except that fantastical class in which the priest was dumbfounded. The last thing I remember of CCD was my sister refusing the 52-week box of envelopes for personal donations at Mass every week. She refused it twice, then finally told Sister that we go to the parish down the street! I really love her chops on that one!

When I started working for the legislature on insurance issues, thirty years ago, everything we proposed, including offering (not paying for, just offering) well baby care got a three word response from the Industry. Will Increase Premiums. Legislators were frightened of the insurance lobby because they gave money to folks they liked. We did get well baby care passed but do you think anyone got an insurance rebate when companies raked in the profits after the seat belt law was enacted?

State legislators were fearful of the state-by-state insurance lobby (the lobby’s choice) but our President, Barack Obama is more fearful of Rome, the Pope and the Roman Catholic Church. I believe his step-down position should have been his primary position so he wouldn’t look as if he’s caving to Rome in the first place.

Many others have said in better ways that these institutions of higher learning and hospitals receive major federal funding so they should be subject to rules in order to accept that funding. I agree.

Last I heard there was a separation of church and state here in these united states. Of course people want to blur the line otherwise they wouldn’t be seen as working. Fact is, I don’t want to see women be treated worse in healthcare when they work for a Roman Catholic institution.

This has been a week of Prop 8, Susan G Komen and now this debacle. Conservative Utahans don’t want California gays to marry. Susan J Komen caves to conservatives that don’t want poor women to have mammograms to detect breast cancer, and Catholics don’t want insurance companies to allow access to birth control. Is this really 2012 or did I awaken in a different decade?

Here are my solutions: Utah, take your hands of California, let the courts rule; Komen, you did a big boo boo to your donors, fix it and forget about ego; and to the RC church, let it go. Your members can go to the 7/11 and buy a condom. And they do.

All for this post, fellow readers and writers of more than I’m capable of submitting. Cheers, Dee