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Guy Questions

Number One.

Twice in the past three years I’ve scraped a post with the old car I love, in our very tiny underground garage. Less than 1 mph, first was a guy racing up on his cell phone. Second was a neighbor waving hello while walking into said garage.

Both times my husband and any male friend I saw asked two questions. Are you OK? Is the post OK? No woman would ever have asked that second question. They would have asked about the car, not the post.

Number Two.

Hugging. Kissing male friends and relatives. You never know to do the French single or double cheek or just hug. I’m sorry but if the man has to ask you on a date or to marry, he should decide and move in. Otherwise it’s awkward.

And Finally, Three.

No, you’re wrong. He always puts down the toilet seat so I won’t fall in. Gotcha! I’m certain he never did that before he met me.

Aside from spilling many Dr. Peppers, waters and others and only coming into “my” kitchen for ice and beverages I would like to not just cook for him, I’d like us to have the time to make a meal together once or twice a year. We may start with pizza with OO Italian flour, of course I have it. Friday night is pizza night.

Texas chili, my version of Lady Bird Johnson’s chili she served on the Pedernales ranch to 5,000 guests including JFK in 1962 is an option. It was the most requested document from the White House until JFK’s death. We could do that with cornbread and a salad. Dessert, well, we’ll talk about that. If his mother was visiting I’m sure she’d take care of it!

I love him dearly and while he’s not military, I feel for those younger wives who are alone for so long with young kids. My husband has been gone seven months and is back at least for a few days and we just have a dog. A spoiled dog at that.

This post is dedicated to the Americans who serve our nation and the families who miss them. Dee

 

Dear Mr. Stephenson,

Dear Randall Stephenson, CEO of AT&T. Your tech center is down. How much does it cost you when they can’t process online payments? A lot. Here’s my story.

Your company has brought me to hell and back today because I tried to pay a $190 wireless bill. It took two hours and my time is worth much more than the bill I paid, which ended up being more than the due amount because they would not tell me what was due and I rounded up from past bills in case you dinged us for underpaying.

I don’t write checks anymore because it’s easier to pay bills online and I pay mine on time every month for many years. Today after your tech people failed and the system went down, your call center staff was rude and would not help me. I asked for accounting. They would not tell me the amount owed. I am on the account but had to provide information I could not do so at the time. Apparently I switched my husband’s last four SSN numbers to mine.

With accounting still not telling me the amount owed while telling me I am on the account they said my husband has to call them to allow access or I have to go to an AT&T office with passport or drivers’ license to actually call in to pay a bill when your online bill payment is down. And as an additional slap in the face I had to pay a $5 penalty for calling in. I pay our bills on time and will not let your inept staff keep me from doing so.

I told them that I pay the bills and placed my husband’s name on the account. They said I could go to an office and switch names on the account (even though I’m on it) and I would be solely responsible for any charges incurred.

I said that to get the account nearly ten years ago my husband was not required to go to an office and show his passport or drivers’ license to get an account for our iPhones. Of course I’m “just the wife” so I have to go to an office with ID to pay our monthly bill because your computers are down.

As we age, I pay the bills and do yours online on the due date each month. If something happened to my husband what would happen if I was “just the wife” on an account trying to pay my phone and utility bills every month? You can do better, sir, and should for the millions of families you serve. Think of the military where spouses are here with families while their loved ones are at war. Think about it. You must do better. Respectfully, Dee