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Purging

Sounds disgusting, doesn’t it? It is. I’m trying to get us to a minimum of “stuff” so we remain mobile. The old clothing et al was pretty easy, especially as I had assistance and at least six bags of clothing went to charity. Luckily some didn’t and was trashed. Reasons? Old, yellowed, 80’s shoulder pads should NEVER come back…..

Now I’m pretty much down to paper and sundry items that I have to look through. I spent much of the day on this boxing and taking out trash.

When my husband and I met and married 12 years ago I moved in, slapped things in boxes from my place 1,000 feet away and we never got a chance to merge households. We moved, put stuff in storage for several years, and now have it here. I’ve about 14 boxes left, about 7 paper, some office products, some clothing and bathroom stuff.

I just found a few “duralogs” in one box. My husband reminds me we had a fireplace once. I don’t think so. I had one before we met so I may have dragged these things across the country several times!

Once I get to work documents from 25 years ago I’ll have to cull them carefully and take most to a document destruction facility. I’m shredding personal papers and tossing old news items et al.

This week I took down our tabletop -real- Christmas tree and boxed, sealed and labeled all our precious ornaments. I’m trying to take all the taped, labeled boxes of stuff we wish to retain but don’t need every day (like Christmas ornaments, heater, humidifier) to storage but am terrified of operating their elevator. It’s the oldest industrial elevator in town and is gorgeous, huge with oak floors, but it runs on a pulley system with ropes and lead weights and is difficult to get just right, to land correctly on the floor you want to land upon.

Our place is looking better. It only took 2.5 years. I moved my office into the second bedroom because my husband bought a workhorse of a printer (the Beast) that weighs and ton and takes up a lot of space. I have a 100 year-old English oak gate leg table as my desk, it’s beautiful but rickety so I had to place the Beast on a sturdier surface, my brother’s old glass and metal desk in the guest room so moved my computer in as well.

My cherished oak desk held the Christmas tree, stockings and ornaments. I’ve been restoring it with lemon oil so have left it open. Cooks will love this. I oiled the desk yesterday, found a pashmina scarf my dad got me from Turkey last year in blues, greens and gold and used it as a table runner as it goes with the living room decor.

I didn’t have anything special to place on it so showcased a large Armetale platter my mother got from a hospital benefit years ago, an antique green lemon juicer, a new (used) copy in yellow of The New Settlement Cookbook, two soup tureens in yellow with ceramic Chinese spoons and an antique yellow Pyrex dish from the early 60’s with a daisy painted on the glass lid. Also a crayoned card from a girls’ birthday party we stopped by at a neighbor’s. My husband made them each a balloon and they each drew themselves with the balloon he made. I’m keeping it to frame for him.

With tassels on the ends of the scarf, it looks to me like an altar to food. I joked with my husband that I could grab the gardening kneeling pad I keep beside the frig and he could use it to pray to the food gods to have Dee make him spaghetti and meatballs tonight!

Purging is tiring, hurts the back and feet but a good night’s sleep will take care of that. I’ll let you know when I get to the ancient stuff. Perhaps I’ll find the signed copy of James Earl Jones’ Chilean Sea Bass recipe my father bought for me at auction. Cheers! Dee

 

Little Things

A lot of my life has been impacted by books and movies. We grew up in the middle of nowhere and the only television I saw was Walter Cronkite giving the number of dead Americans in Vietnam at the end of the news, and Jacques Cousteau. Ok an occasional “Flipper” but back then it was a porpoise and not crummy home renovations.

Here’s my list of favorite “small” movies that are deemed so by me because they are not produced by Bruckheimer and don’t have a lot of cars crashing and things blowing up. If they do, there’s a story behind it that backs up the carnage.

At age eight I read The Diary of Anne Frank and Death Be Not Proud. Both were quiet stories about tremendous trials and hardship. I don’t need car chases or trains and planes blowing up. Human trials are enough for me and more poignant.

Over the past few days I’ve been tossing movie names out to my husband. We go to his sci-fi movie and I get a chick flick. He takes me to The Ring and I take him to Memoirs of a Geisha and we each get two movies to choose from. With both Netflix and Amazon Prime we rarely go out to the movies anymore. Along with that I must say he thinks I’m nuts for doing this and he created this blog and I’ve nearly 2,800 posts on it. Thank you, dear. This list is a random creation.

My first is Star Wars IV, A New Hope. I never saw it in the theater but decades after it premiered we bought the CD’s and lent them out and they were never returned. Now we watch part of the marathons. I thank my loving husband for introducing me to this genre which does include blowing stuff up but for a reason and real story. btw, in the end Luke and Leia are twins. Sorry, thirty years later to spoil the story.

ET, a love story between a boy and an alien and knowing who should have been involved (not the military). If I were to pitch it I’d say it was a coming of age story with a family – a boy – and an alien and the over-intrusive government tries to get in the way of a true friendship.

Finding Forrester, because the kid chose his own way to get an education and play ball.

Truly Madly Deeply because it was about forever love.

The Sound of Music and Mary Poppins for the songs, of course, that made me want to make music, and telling me whatever I chose to do in life I could make a difference.

A Price Above Rubies for courage. Salmon Fishing on the Yemen for commitment and love.

Field of Dreams for transcendence and James Earl Jones. The Pride of the Yankees for the great Lou Gherig. Rudy for pushing through against all odds to be carried off the field at Notre Dame.

The Brothers McMullen because it exposed some raw notes in religion, sexism and going public on issues that had not been discussed. Seven Years in Tibet, The Last Samurai. The Princess Bride, To Catch a Thief……

There are others. This is just a start. Perhaps I should be a movie critic as I don’t yet have my own in the can, so to speak. The sun is up and so is the dog so I must dance to the music. This morning, merci beaucoup, I can’t dance, don’t ask me, Dee.

ps Fred and Ginger danced to that song, her in high heels and backwards, yes I got to meet her and she danced with my father on stage in front of a few thousand people. I think she led.

A Long Time Ago…

in a galaxy far, far away. Whoops, sounds like Episode IV, A New Hope. I had a cat, and had just met the man who was to be my husband of nearly ten years (anniversary coming up in a few months). He could not visit me because he is deathly allergic to cats, so I had to find him his own place 1,000 feet from mine.

Let’s just say his gifts are usually meant to make HIS life easier or more fun. He did buy a gas mask so he could come over for dinner one night. I couldn’t stop laughing as all I could think of was James Earl Jones in Star Wars saying “Luke, I am your father.” That’s what he sounded like.

Washer and dryer and frig at his place so I could do his laundry (and mine without going to the laundromat) and cook.

The gas mask only lasted about ten minutes and we went out to a neighborhood haunt for dinner. Other “gifts” include a flat screen tv and a playstation III. Two controllers, one which has never been used in the past four years but finally made it out of the box because I wasn’t about to move the box!

This gift was because I wouldn’t go away for the weekend and leave my cat Mickey Mouse (real name Mick Dundee) alone. So my dear husband bought me an automated feeding system. Four trays so we could leave Friday night, go to Disneyland or wherever, and come home Sunday afternoon, no problem.

It was battery powered. I had to freeze two small packs, then pack the four trays with canned quality food (Innova, I used back then) and set the timer. Unfortunately one weekend the timer didn’t go off and that heavy feeding system was bashed around and ten feet from its original location. I felt terrible and fed him the minute I walked in the door. I also had a self-waterer that had been freshly scrubbed and filled before we left for the weekend. Also every dog in the neighborhood knew him. When they ran away from home I’d get a call and they’d be right outside looking at him through the window and asking him to come out and play/wrestle. He also taught himself to fetch, crumpled post-it notes from my to-do lists so aside for one missed meal, I was not needed.

We normally do not purchase gifts for each other for birthdays, holidays or anniversaries but I find my love’s tastes quite self-serving. Ceramic Santoku knife. Calphalon roasting pan with rack. For our wedding he spent days researching online and told his parents (who asked him what to get as a gift) we would love a food processor, but only a KitchenAid. I’m the cook and was not asked. Our counters now sport a blender, food processor and my 25 year-old 5 qt. stand mixer, all by KitchenAid!

Allow me to say that he comes into the kitchen only to get ice and Dr. Pepper. Has not cooked a thing since we met 11 years ago but he is eager to make it easier for me to cook for him.

Jim gave me sci fi movies. I gave him Jane Austen and Memoirs of a Geisha, for which I will never be forgiven. Excited I am to see Star Wars marathons on cable.

What would life be like without interesting stories and someone with whom to share them? Not one I want to be a part of. Thanks for reading, as always. Dee