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Death Parties

Cake is essential. One must not forget that. There are now sites to help with templates for death but I fear they do not deal with the aftermath.

If one sits by impending death day by day and tends to the dying one, it gets somewhat tedious, becomes routine and one tries to plan for the inevitable. It is a sad time that certain folks share with each other, no matter who they may be.

Perhaps I should say that it is a process that cannot be governed by a template. Who’s dying? X is dying. Is the pearl necklace mine now? Yes or no. Do you want oxygen? Yes or no. Who will inherit the house? Who will inherit the debt? The horses need to be fed and the dogs walked. Cremation? Yes or no? Burial site?

Most don’t think of what comes afterward. People and families need to do this on their own. Forgive yourselves for patenting software to do it. I know, the funeral industry has been selling caskets and services for many years.

If I thought your software would make a difference I’d put it in place for my husband in my living will. I will not, because you’re taking advantage of people and I won’t abide by that.

This product is offensive to me, as it tells me as a daughter I must have a  template that you provide for me. I believe that every family believes and provides solace and grieves before and after death does so in its own way.

Thanks from a very robust and living Dee