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See You Tonight

In 14 years of being together, my husband has never said that to me. It was a given until last year, when it didn’t make sense timewise or financially to come home halfway across the country for a weekend.

He’ll still have to fly tonight and I have to plan Saturday dinner and other menus and shop for food but we weren’t wiped out by a tornado last night, despite the storms so all is well. Next weekend we’ve a cooking session with a neighbor (not with husband, he can sleep or go buy dog food) and dinner with neighbor and guest. It’s a Texas Chili lesson with a Swedish neighbor. My husband looks forward to it. Not the prep or lessons, the dinner.

My husband called from 1,000 miles away to say “I’ll Be Home Tonight.” Life is good. Dee

PS They don’t call me the dog lady for nothing. This morning I held my 35 lb Zoe on a leash along with a 120 lb Akita who wants to be her boyfriend (don’t worry, she was spayed at five weeks of age) and they both stayed calm and three feet apart, a leash in each of my hands and were perfectly behaved. Zoe didn’t flirt at all! Cesar The Dog Whisperer would be proud. Cheers, Dee

Dog Whisperer

That’s what I’m called here but I can’t hold a candle to Caesar. My first dog and I arrived at the shelter in 1991 together. I was giving a gift to my family’s Collie who had recently died. Yes, I arranged for her death and sent her owners (my brother and youngest sister) out with her, sent my mother to pay the bill and I went back and collected her bed and toys then brought everyone together.

Unfortunately I’ve had to do that alone and help others do so over the years. Before Caesar came on the scene, I was running at and leaping over my abused and scared dog who I got after she was at the shelter for a year and hated men and children and they talked once, yes once, about putting her down. She was my girl and I’d spent a year with her, even with me in a neck brace, sitting in her enclosure.

She was home with me the next day. She’d been abused by a deputy sheriff and was wary of any man in uniform or even in a baseball cap. Whenever I walked toward her she jumped up as if I was going to kick her. None of that for me. First I started walking over her, then running and jumping over her and all she did was roll her eyes and ask “what is this crazy woman doing?”

We were together for ten years. She bled out and I rushed her to the vet and held her and she fought it every step of the way as I knew she would. Her ashes are in her favorite park and all the neighbors bought the city a tree in her memory. It has a better view than my homes there ever did.

The next time we got a pup at six weeks, adopted from a shelter in Texas. She was a mess, coccidia and hookworms and I had to get a vet to give her sub-q fluids three days in, after she vomited all over the car.

Then she was diagnosed with the worst hip dysplasia our vet had ever seen so I researched for weeks then had her hips taken out at six and nine months and she had to grow her own from cartilage, which she did and she’ll be nine early next year.

I told my husband I’ll still adopt strays but no more puppies. Then I met Charlie yesterday, a water spaniel pup, and told Jim OK when Zoe goes peacefully, I have the wherewithal to raise another shelter pup. I can do the training and eight walks per day. I have the food thing down and don’t have to cook for our Zoe.

Caesar is the master of “the walk.” I do the walk, and have a loose leather leash in my hand with a bag attached to the handle, in case I have to take care of her business.

I do hope that his storied career has been beneficial to others. I’ve worked with shelter dogs and spayed and neutered over 2,000 feral cats and created volunteer projects and worked with volunteers for over 20 years. Teaching dog owners to be responsible is an invaluable asset for all of us.

What is he going to do after Dog Whisperer? I can only hope that he’s not going to try herding cats, feral or otherwise! Dee

Good Zoe!

Patriotic Dog

Just come when called, or I’ll have to call Cesar Millan! Dee

Second Chances

Years ago I volunteered for an animal shelter that had a special program to keep dogs in domestic violence situations.  As a soc/psych grad I thought this was brilliant.  Often, abusers start by torturing small animals, graduate to family pets, then children and spouses.  This program would allow a family, when the abuser is put behind bars, to get their dog back.

Today I received an email from Cesar Milan Inc. saying that Michael Vick, who ran a dog fighting enterprise and had dogs killed, should get a second chance.

I disagree.  It’s not enough for Mr. Vick to participate in a violent sport, NFL football.  He had to engage in more violent enterprises in his time off.  If he doesn’t care about the well-being of “man’s best friend” he is a dangerous individual who needs lifetime counseling (that won’t do anything) and monitoring.

Pit bulls, cock fights, are all monstrous activities that are considered “sport” to a specialized segment of our communities.  Perhaps it’s wounded people, emotionally damaged, that like watching specially bred animals to fight to the death because they’ve never been in control of their own lives.

I won’t go to a rodeo or horse race, instead help shelter animals and ferals.  In this case I believe that Michael Vick, removed from court time served to advocate for animals, will go back to being Michael Vick, animal cruelty specialist.  And watch out for his family, as once frustrated in his desire to see animals kill each other, his family is next so Animal Control should be contacting the social services department right about now.  Not happy about this, Dee