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Recipes for Disaster

Only one, and I’ll add one for good, for family celebrations that last for days.

I offered to take in a neighbor’s dog, J, an exuberant 110 lb. lab/retriever for the night. He is a wonderful, needy, house guest but I couldn’t figure out how to get his harness on. When it comes to dog care, I get up in the morning and know that Z needs to go out asap. I use the facilities, check out how many layers of clothing/boots/hats/gloves I’ll need and we’re out the door. So I felt for J and decided his collar was OK.

Unfortunately we’re in an ice storm and all the streets and sidewalks are covered and most schools are closed. My husband took my car to work because I’ve snow tires on and he does not (they’re in storage).

So J’s a big guy! I’d already walked six blocks to the store to pick up a few things. Took me 20 minutes each way avoiding “black ice” where it looks like pavement but is slick and deadly. At times I walked on the street because cars had broken up a lot of it but that’s deadly as well in this town.

He was very good and didn’t pull me around much and did everything he was supposed to do. It took several hours for he and Z to settle down. My Zoe was the troublemaker, barking at any sound she heard. I’d fed them and taken them out separately.

Now it’s midnight and he was up so I took him. She was jealous so I took her and placed her back up on the bed. He did the funniest thing! When I went to visit him and learn of his feeding, treat, med schedule and where his leash was kept he did not come to greet me as he had closed himself in the bathroom.

While we were testing boundaries I closed off everything but the living/dining areas. I was hoping they’d both settle down and didn’t hear him for a couple of minutes. Then I heard him breathing. He had opened the door to the guest bathroom and closed it behind him! He can get in, not out.

He will not settle now and opened our bedroom door and closed it. Smart boy. It has been an adventure.

There’s a huge barge off shore and it’s lit up like a Christmas tree! I went to a health care facility today to give my gift. I’m going to start a pet therapy program for them and I and my Zoe may go to see patients. The national program would not accept her because I feed her a raw food diet. She’s been on it for nearly ten years and I won’t compromise her health and change her diet for charity. Perhaps they’ll come up with the same restriction but I’ll come up with a program for them anyway.

Receptionist T escorted me down the hall to meet the volunteer coordinator who was at a rummage sale to benefit the hospital. He knew I’d just come off the icy sidewalks and offered his arm and thanked me for what I was trying to do as he’s always wanted to be a zoologist. After I slipped and slid to the grocery store and came back, as I promised, I spent a whopping $5.28 at the rummage sale. I got a house with a tree that can be retrofitted as an ornament, a candy cane with a felt mouse that is already on our tree, and a slice of Kringle, strawberry. Yum. I had them cut it in half and gave half to T for escorting this old lady down the hall.

Now for the good stuff. The other day I saw Bobby Flay do a Strata and I’ve done frittatas and quiches et al but this was “Dee the mom’s” clean out the frig strata. I did have to buy good bread, but you should use stale bread, and good cheese. And just wing it, knowing your parameters.

For two of us I set out the bread to get stale and caramelized 1/2 an onion in a pan with a pat of butter. I had some frozen spinach so added it to a bowl after squeezing all the liquid out of it, added about two cups of bread cubes, four eggs, 1-2T of cream and 1/2 cup of Gruyere cheese. I also sauteed two pork sausages, cut them up and added. Mix up dry and wet and combine and mine fit easily into a 2 quart Pyrex rice cooking bowl. Top with another 1/2 cup of Gruyere and cook at 350 for about 45 minutes.

What I told my mother-in-law, we have cooking fests every Thanksgiving, is that this is a “seat of the pants” dish we could triple on one morning and we wouldn’t have to do individual egg orders for everyone. Have all the ingredients ready, first one of us up pops it in the oven for an hour or so (multiple portions will take longer) and there’s breakfast!

Many years ago I asked my fiancee about family traditions. Christmas? Milk cows. Thanksgiving? Milk cows. You get the drift. This dish gives a family eggs, sausage, milk, cheese, veggies. A dairy is not something for an older man or couple to run, so it’s a ranch now but everyone still needs a hearty breakfast to live on a farm.

The funniest story I have about this is my first time there at the then dairy to “meet the folks.” As I, a cook, negotiated my way around an unfamiliar kitchen, I said there was no milk for omelets or scrambled eggs and future mother-in-law told me I could use evaporated or dried milk from the pantry. I said, you’ve 150 cows across the road and they were milked not an hour ago and you don’t have milk?” My dear m-i-l said “I no longer have two growing boys. Back then I always had a gallon or two in the frig.” To this day my husband knows whether store-bought milk is “grassy.”

Nanny is always worried about her kids, their kids, her great-grands. She was worried about my husband even though I passed her 45-minute interview but the next time we saw her she said “It looks like Dee is feeding you well.” Perhaps too well these days. But I knew she approved of us being together. That’s how life goes. Dee

ps I never knew my grandmothers so Nanny agreed to be mine over a decade ago.

Open The Floodgates

We have no health care. If something happens in the next week we have to pay for three months of COBRA because my husband was laid off with 1/3 of his cohorts in a bizarre turn of events.

Luckily, if things go well we will have health care the day after our last day to elect COBRA. This is how Americans are dealing with day-to-day life.

People who are for or mostly against the nation’s health care plan, which people who denigrate our President and Commander in Chief call “Obamacare” now sit before the Supreme Court.

One person today asked who “deserves” health care. When there is employment, our employers foot part of the bill as an incentive to work there. But everyone deserves decent health care.

The problem is that Congress and the President have their own health care for life. We don’t. They don’t understand how it is to be laid off and have no money to pay for COBRA for 18 months trying to get a job when they need to house and feed a family.

I believe the conservative interests in our country don’t care about working class families and how their lives are impacted by either layoffs or family farming not being able to make do against government subsidized agricultural giants.

Heck, my family runs a ranch in Texas and my mother-in-law works for the federal government and gets health insurance for her and her husband. It shouldn’t be that way.

Do I believe that every person living in the US of A should be forced to have health insurance or be penalized? No. That is a scam of the insurance industry who pretends to hate this law.

For hundreds of years, since Lloyds of London was established, insurance schemes were perpetrated on the public so insurers could make and invest their money and never give it back.

That continues at least in the USA today because insurers make sure they’re regulated state-by-state, and not federally like banks. But the SEC is lax on a lot of things, too. So insurance can run things by state and make more money if the laws are looser, if they serve more champagne and Oysters Rockefeller to seal the deal, with a check in hand.

Are there a few problems with this law? Yes, there are with all of them. But our founding fathers didn’t have a problem with saying that life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness was our right. Newt amended that yesterday to assure that only “young” Americans had that right.

If people want to put aside millions for their own private insurance and “conceirge” medical care that’s fine. Just give the poor and middle class a chance. Dee

Veggie Dinner Disaster

First off, I’ve got to tell you that my father-in-law had to sell off 75% of his herd last weekend in Texas because of the drought.  Being on bottom land, he had more water than most of the other ranchers, also grass.  Now the months of excessive heat and drought have brought family farmers to their knees.

Joe was a dairyman for decades.  Family farms couldn’t compete with conglomerates and he couldn’t handle the herd alone so sold off the cows and started a cattle ranch on 600 acres.  Now he’s left with one bull and 21 others.

When the government gives money to farms it doesn’t go to small family farms.  When the milk and cheese people show gorgeous country farms, that’s not where our milk and cheese are coming from.

My husband was raised on meat and potatoes.  And milk (that’s another story).  So I decided to make a delectable vegetarian meal.  Homemade falafel on homemade grilled fry bread with tahini sauce, arugula and tomatoes.

It was a disaster on every level.  Basically, my husband was really tired from work so I decided to “grill” the fry bread indoors.  They came out like bricks and took over my main burner.

I got the other burner up to temp for the falafel and the first batch turned out OK and I put it in the oven.  The second failed miserably, sitting in cool oil and falling apart.  The falafel were really tasty, as was the tahini sauce.   This recipe needs a re-do by me because everything was tasty, it was my heat, or lack thereof, that created havoc.  And I can always buy pita bread and keep the best burner on.

I just wanted my husband to know what it would be like without beef.  Cheers, Dee