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Old Stories and Newbies

I didn’t have much time to make dinner this evening for our guests so the mini-quiches and blueberry pie were store bought, from a good store.

The menu included sauteed pork chops with traditional milk/flour/egg/crumbs method. Also very strange spaetzle (I’d have made my own, had I known), green beans and a German cucumber salad whose recipe is on this blog.

I told a story to our guests. Years ago I sought to make a difference in my community by joining our local park council. The entry level was insignificant, sitting in a chair at a meeting for three months in a row. But I was not allowed to join.

When I asked why, they said I was outside of the boundaries. I told them my neighbor was on the council and they said yes, she’s there to represent all of you. I took my case to the mayor, city council and parks department then gave my “taxation without representation” speech. I was allowed to join.

Not only that, I’d mentioned it to a friend and all of a sudden I was VP of the organization that gave this public council money.They still hated me, for years, and still do as they try to find me online all the time to keep making my life miserable even though I moved away a decade ago.

When there, my dog died suddenly, and over 40 neighbors wanted to donate a tree to our park in her memory. The city decided what kind, size and placement of the tree, but the people who hated me from the start fought it tooth and nail. I was not the instigator of this but was contacted by my city council office to explain myself.

I showed them the brochure from the Foundation that gives them money, of which I was a vice-president and mentioned that the size, type and placement of the tree was all in the city’s hands.

That was a sad victory. I did get to put a snip of her latest tennis ball in the hole before they planted the tree. My dear neighbor sewed some of her ashes into the teddy bear she brought to the park her last day which is up in my closet next to the collage she made of all my dog’s photos. And we all got together and each poured a cup of water on the tree to help it grow.

As it comes to blogs, I’d advise someone who wants to start one on the things no-one tells you. Of course she’ll learn from experience, but after a few years, even though I’m not into the technical aspects and WP is letting people steal my words for money, I’ve a few things to say. Lunch next week. Cheers! Dee

I’m Back

Can’t stand not writing and my husband doesn’t have the time to transfer me to another site. Things are crazy busy right now and I haven’t even finished our taxes.

I work hard on writing my blogs, don’t know much about the technical stuff but don’t like it when y’all steal it and peddle it as yours for money. I don’t make any money on this site. and don’t want you to take it from me. I’d rather teach the few thieves how to write. We can trade for technical expertise.

Today we’re talking about a letter that starts with a brief “thank you.” then devolves into demands then has places for lawyers to sign. That’s an invitation to re-sign our lease three months before it is finished and a full month before we are required to give notice.

Don’t get me wrong but I always thought an invitation was something one wrote with an R.S.V.P to someone asking them to dinner or a party. Just as I thought a thank-you note was something one wrote an aunt for a scarf and balaclava, hand-knitted for the holidays.

Yes, I grew up in the olden days, even wear a Pippi Longstocking hat in winter (thanks PDX) but there are no manners these days. Here, no-one stops for pedestrians in designated crosswalks and cars honk all the time, for nothing.

The other day, my dog and I were stepping up on the curb and a car’s owner  blasted its horn for 30 seconds just to tell us that we were not allowed on a designated pedestrian crosswalk! Imagine that.

Right now I live above it, but there may be other winds in the air, perhaps not of Polish sausage and beer. Here, one hears Harleys, but I recall a time of itinerant buskers who played bagpipes on the street. Things are different wherever one lives but I’ll always miss the ‘pipes. Perhaps we’ll go to visit one day and actually understand what the cabbie is saying! All I know is that four days in, for months, I was the target of Japanese tourists asking where to get stamps or to get to the correct train station.

My godfather/uncle is named McDonald. I called from Scotland asking if he had any relatives for me to contact for him. He said no, his family had left in the 1700’s to fight the French. But he told me I could say his full name anywhere in town and I’d be stood a pint. I never did it but love him for showing me Scots manners. Aye, manners. Miss Manners, Dear Prudence, et al and the pioneers of this genre as well. May manners be taught to both genders, early on. Cheers, Dee

Studies

The dog and I had people here today and needed to get out of the way for longer than we thought so went to the den and closed the door. I opened an old art book and out fell four of five pages from a long-lost study I did of Renaissance art.

Fr. Murphy brought out my love of art over the ages through college Art History and my family nurtured it with many vacations to Florence, my favorite city.

My study was about the Annunciation, the moment the Virgin Mary learned that she would be the mother of the Son of God. I know, it doesn’t sound like me. But this was before the internet and I visited all I could and researched others and have not seen this in many years.

What strikes me is that for a 16 year-old girl afraid of writing a 20 page thesis to graduate from high school, I just researched this and made notes on my own, for fun. Why do I blog? In high school or college it would take me hours to write 500 words. Now I can do it in under 20 minutes. It’s a challenge and it’s fun. And as an added benefit, the people I meet are interesting and amazing.

Thank you, dear reader, for making my day today. Also looking at me are a photo of my first cat Nathan who I had for 13 years, me at one year old in a pink snowsuit being inquisitive and fearless, and an ornament of my first dog with angel wings and a halo. Am I a glass half full kinda gal? You betcha. Stay with us. Cheers! Dee