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Healthcare Point and Shoot

My husband and I are tied up back to back in a darkened room on what a layman would call a Lazy Susan, add blindfolds. Spin us around and where we land are our healthcare decisions.

I know larger companies are trying to do the best for themselves and their employees, but things have gotten out of hand. Will no pre-existing conditions in 2014 actually help people get insurance?

As always the rich get richer and the poor get poorer. Insurance companies don’t sell insurance, they take peoples’ money and invest it to make themselves money then deny claims by people who gave them that money in the first place.

Sometimes I want to live in a small farm town where I could run the local B&B and just pay the local doc if I get bronchitis. Now I know my relatives all live in these small towns and are helicoptered out if there’s a major problem.

Where do they take them? The place I will not go this year or ever. Near where JFK died nearly 50 years ago. We hope to see other historic sites on our trip for Thanksgiving but not the Texas Book Depository.

Are you an “acceptable risk” whether it comes to health insurance or property/casualty (auto and home) insurance?

My guess is you don’t want to figure out the health insurance until next year, as there’s no way with juvenile onset diabetes you can be covered. Cynically, Dee

Disaster Aid

I helped for years trying to maximize state and city building code enhancements and enforcement. Now it is demonstrated that little works against nature’s fury.

One wonders why our employers are asking so much more from employees to even have health insurance for families, then ask why every year rich people’s houses are torn down by a storm and we all have to pay for it.

That’s what insurance is about. And the rich not only have insurance, they have re-insurance, which is basically insurance on their insurance.

Folks build by the water always, but no-one sells flood insurance but the federal government. If your house is taken under, chances are we all, all the taxpayers, will pay to have your seaside home rebuilt.

What happens to the other folks, you never ask, as your mansions are rebuilt in a disaster zone. Is it because you don’t care that a walk-up in Queens has no water or power? There’s no food, power or water or a way to flush the toilet. You have a whole-house generator. There may have been a ten-minute glitch in your life.

That’s how we get through hurricanes in the south. Be prepared weeks or months or years beforehand. Know that FEMA and Red Cross will not help at all. OWS seems to be on game in NYC because they know how to live in parks for a year so have exactly the stuff hurricane survivors need.

If you see my old commentaries from Hurricane Ike, I believe OWS survivors should be at least paid to consult with federal agencies, if not given contracts and be paid to do this stuff much better than bureaucrats can. Then give it over. They’ll become bureaucrats, too, and it’ll change again as it needs to do to protect us.

Things change. I used to be emotional about it but thanks to dear friends, I’m now pragmatic. Dee
ps OK I’m also somewhat emotional.

 

Other Elections

It’s time to wade through all the company stuff once again because they changed health insurance companies and we have until Monday to make our elections.

Of course I put it off. Tomorrow my husband’s car goes out for an oil change and I’ll be stuck at home as he’ll “steal” my car so that’s a perfect time to review all the information against what we’ve done and paid out in the past.

I actually have a notebook segmented by health insurance and other coverages with papers and notes inserted by category. I just don’t want to re-live it. His former employer gave us a letter with “facts,” names and numbers. When I called each of those numbers, the “facts” they put out were all wrong. It took several months to get everything fixed, especially them telling us we paid for but did not have health insurance for months!

No-one these days can be assured of anything, but I hope to guide us to the right decisions tomorrow. Yes, this is when you sing Annie’s song, “The Sun Will Come Out, Tomorrow…”

Husband’s car: oil change. Synthetic?

Read all the health and financial information.

Compare against past insurance.

Make recommendations.

Brush the dog.

Make Coq au Vin.

Of course make breakfast and take the dog out at least four times, dishes and laundry and make the bed and clean the bathroom.

Sounds like a great Friday! Now my husband wants me to write a book. Dee

Women

We’re the elephant in the room, but all the armchair political quarterbacks are talking about is how the Republican party has to connect with Latino and young voters.

Mourdock and Akin lost their Senate seats, perhaps having something to do with their views on pregnancy, abortion and “legitimate” rape. I can only surmise that Romney’s repeated televised threats of overturning Roe v. Wade has something to do with losing the women’s vote by 11%. After all, if it’s illegal, abortion only goes back into the alleys, and given the Republican party’s unwillingness toward “sex education” things would be much worse for women under a Republican president trying to turn back the clock forty years. Heck, why not go back fifty years and undo civil rights! Or 150 years so those slaves can’t vote?

I’d love to be a fly on the wall to see seventeen people in attendance at Martin Luther King’s “I Don’t Have a Dream” speech. I’m an Independent, but Republicans, especially Tea Party radicals, need to know that we’re not going to dress like we’re on the Mad Men set, vacuum the carpets in heels, get our hair done and teased every week at the salon and make meals out of Campbell’s soup.

Those days are gone. Republicans, what irks me the most is that the party cannot be one of rich white men who think voter registration and turnout are bad things and that women, hispanics, blacks and gays should just go away. They did go away from the Republican party, and you lost, big time.

It’s ironic that Romney was a moderate, turned tea partier to get the nomination and never got back to the center in a trustworthy fashion. To me, that shows the Christian right, moral majority or whatever tea party-ism is called these days has to be supressed. It’ll always be there, as is the ultra-liberal wing of the Democratic party, but heed this lesson, rich white men.

And don’t just pretend. Romney pretended to be a “regular” American. He is not, if he only pays capital gains tax rates, keeps his assets in the Caymans and wears holy underwear. Something to chew on with breakfast. I bought myself a present, lox and cream cheese. Now I have to wait for the bagel shop to open! Dee

Thanks and Giving

Much to do in the upcoming days. We hope to spend Thanksgiving with family about 1,500 miles away. I’ve got the trip there almost planned with strategic stops along the way so we can see the country and the people who made it great from politics to music to food.

One thing to be thankful for right now is no more negative campaign ads. Yea!

I can now focus on healthcare and financial options at work, get my husband’s oil changed. Now that I’m older and wiser (husband surprised me out at dinner with roses for my birthday) I can get that done this week.

Before we head over the river and through the woods, I wanted to thank you for reading and contributing to this venture.

I’ve been making soups and stews to go along with the cooler weather. There was a special on stew meat the other day so I got double (triple) what we needed so some is frozen for use another day. Beef Carbonnade is a staple, so is curried butternut squash soup (I added roasted carrots this time).

Another task is cleaning the grill, a messy job and one I’ll have to do before the snow sets in. We grill year-round, my husband just shovels a path out there and dons his winter jacket and cossack hat and miner’s lamp. I check done-ness and prepare “sides” in the kitchen. I’m also the official timer.

We’ve never seen a snowflake here so it’ll be an interesting first winter. As to wildlife there are tons of squirrels, I’ve seen a fox once, and there’s a wild turkey living in a park nearby. No, we’re not having this Tom to Thanksgiving dinner!

The election season is over and it’s on to other important things like making better biscuits and whether I should bring mincemeat tarts to Nanny’s. Cheers, Dee

Voting in a Swing State

I am used to going to a local condo meeting room and having all the ladies welcome me, “Good morning, Dee” then I’d sign my name and vote.

For a few months we’ve lived in a new state, and I registered to vote over two months ago and got my registration card in the mail from the City with directions to call the Government Accountability Board if there’s any trouble.

There’s trouble a-plenty. I went with my shopping cart because I was going to stop at the grocery afterwards and walk home as  I knew I needed flour and other heavy things.

So they made me leave my empty bag up front and I took my wallet with Drivers License, Passport, utility bill and they gave me a green card with a number on it. One person told me to go to the line on my right. I’m a new voter and have lived here for over thirty days AND am on the voting rolls.

I showed them my registration card issued by the City. They made me go to the line on the left, which went way out into the parking lot. I went back to my bag to get my hat, scarf and gloves as I knew I’d be outside for a while.

All they did was keep coming out to ask if anyone’s last name began with the letters N-Z. Mine doesn’t so I stayed there for about 10 minutes until the first lady came back and got me and put me in the other line, which looked more promising as it was indoors and shorter. It turned out to be the registration line and took at least ten minutes per person.

Still in the longer line of long-term residents and voters, they kept calling N-Z? No-one? OK, we’ll let people just walking in the door go in immediately because their last name is from N-Z, making everyone angry because we’d already been there 45 minutes.

We keep waiting. I show a fourth person my voter registration card and he says to stay where I am. Finally I’m allowed to stand behind someone who is registering. It’s over an hour now. I finally get to sit at the table and place my voter registration card in front of the volunteer. She hands me an application and I ask her to look at the card and tell her I’m on the rolls (I checked online).

She went over to the “Registered” table and I was afraid she’d send me back in the hall where they were still only calling “N to Z” but she didn’t. She made me 2nd in line in the A-M and all I had to do was verify my address and sign my name and get a ballot.

The ballots were unclear as to how to vote and I messed up but asked the monitor before submitting it and corrected my mistakes.

When I emerged from the room, the gentleman who had told me to stay in line apologized for the wait. I told him it was OK, it would have taken just as long because my last name isn’t N-Z.

Dear Voting Regulators:

Before I contact you I had to let my readers know what I and many others are going through this morning. It appears as if you do not want people to go to the polls and you want them to be discouraged and go home frustrated.

That is not the point of elections.We vote with a pencil that is not designed on a string to have enough room for a left-handed person to vote easily. The instructions, for a first-timer, are obtuse. They don’t say draw a line from here to there. I placed X’s and my vote would have been invalidated if I hadn’t asked if I did it correctly.

Doesn’t the government know the percentage of eligible voters whose last names start with any initial? You should be able, by now, to calculate and eliminate early voters.

The voting books don’t need to be evenly split between the alphabet. The books have to be evenly split depending upon the voting population!

In our local library, there were four poll workers in the “green card” section. I had a green card but no-one asked me for it or told me what it meant. It says “32.” One “green card” voter sat across from each poll worker until business was concluded. The poll workers had to call out the name and address of the applicant in a loud voice for the supervisors to hear. The lady told me she’s on an 8-hour shift and I may have to drop by some throat lozenges for them later on today. Sincerely, Dee

It’s creepy. My dad just called and I told him we were all going into a secret room, one by one, and it felt like a Holocaust precursor.

That’s when I realized what an insular world this is and that people are born here, live and die here and rarely go more than a couple hundred miles away during their lives. They distrust “foreigners” even from other states.

Am I a plant by one party to vote in a swing state? No way, I’ve been here for several months now and judging from our reception, don’t want to stay much longer unless things change for the better. We do have some very nice neighbors from around the country and world so feel more comfortable now.

Voting is a right first, and a privilege because we get to live in the USA. My first time here at the voting booths, I’d say we were all treated like cattle off to the slaughter. The parameters are all wrong, people don’t know what they’re doing and voters will give up and leave because they have work to do and kids at school and waiting a couple of hours to do their patriotic duty is shamed by their treatment by this obtuse voting system.

Please prioritize your alphabet and teach poll workers not to place someone with a valid voter registration card with unregistered voters.

Thank you. a disconcerted voter, Dee

If Wishes Were Horses

I never knew what that meant. I’ve had a “bucket list” in my head since the day I was born. Don’t know when I’ll do things but at my age it’s about time to start.

Julia Child will take me to Paris and perhaps along the Rhone on a barge with picnic baskets with baguettes and sausages and cheeses,

Peggy Markel will take me through Florence and Tuscany and Sandro the baker will sing for me again. Luca will be charming at Maremma.

James Beard will show me the Pacific Northwest in all its glory.

Calvin Trillin and his Tummy Trilogy will tell me in detail about Kansas City BBQ and the economic laws of Alice.

I will finally get to the Salt Lick in Driftwood TX. I may live there.

Alice Waters will show me her latest kick, as will Rick Bayless. He’ll spend 25 years teaching me mole.

I will not open a restaurant and Gordon Ramsay will not be there.

Eric Ripert will come here and cook us dinner for our 10th anniversary.

If wishes were horses……. Dee

New Life, New Friends

When I get an ecstatic email from a grandfather about a new grandson who bears his name, tears come to my eyes.

Losses and gains. One can’t have one without the other. Yesterday I met a new neighbor who cut short a career to take care of a parent who recently passed. Once the house is sold tomorrow he’s lost his childhood.

So what do I do? Have a dinner party to introduce him to his new neighbors. Of course that’s what Dee would do!

I don’t have a set menu yet but am working on it. Already working on cards to deliver by hand that were made by a local artist.

New beginnings. Remembering the past but living in the present and looking towards a future. I keep telling myself that even though my mother died four years ago and my husband and I have moved on.

Thank you who have helped me through my life’s trials. Dee

Salt Lake City

and the State of Utah dealt Mitt Romney a blow with this:

“In considering which candidate to endorse, The Salt Lake Tribune editorial board had hoped that Romney would exhibit the same talents for organization, pragmatic problem solving and inspired leadership that he displayed here more than a decade ago. Instead, we have watched him morph into a friend of the far right, then tack toward the center with breathtaking aplomb. Through a pair of presidential debates, Romney’s domestic agenda remains bereft of detail and worthy of mistrust.”

This, from a state that promotes the Mormon faith, against one of their sons who must tithe a lot (10%) or perhaps not, once they saw his few tax returns that were made public.

“Therefore, our endorsement must go to the incumbent, a competent leader who, against tough odds, has guided the country through catastrophe and set a course that, while rocky, is pointing toward a brighter day. The president has earned a second term. Romney, in whatever guise, does not deserve a first.” Editorial from the Salt Lake Tribune

Harsh words. The state will vote Republican as always, but the sentiment is there that if one flip-flops and changes the game weeks before the election it’s a desperate bid.

I’ve said often that we’re now in a “swing” state. We won’t watch TV because of all the nasty political ads. But I do have to check out the weather every morning.

Let us hope that Utah’s major newspaper endorsed President Obama because of Mr. Romney’s flip-flopping on issues and violations of the credos his church finds sacred, like honesty.

I’m afraid to see how former presidents were elected on “whistle-stop tours” of local towns where their advance-men told them the town’s issues and they promised to stop something or start a new something else.

We have high-tech stuff now and can see everything you do. I mean everything. Go to a hooker’s room. Nailed. Unfortunately that may not extend to the voting booth, especially in Ohio. Also polling places that are under water or have to be moved and it’s a big mess.

We’ll see what happens. Whatever Mitt Romney did to the Mormon church has caused backlash. They own the newspaper and TV and everything else in town. If they turn on the golden son, he’s gone. That was a big step. Dee

“Snow in the Rockies”

Do I feel for the people who lost lives and livelihoods due to Hurricane Sandy and its aftermath? Of course I do. People who lost their homes and businesses? Yes.

I’ve lived in a lot of places in my life, and it’s spent by weathercasters being more concerned about an earthquake hitting L.A. than SF or San Diego; about a horrific storm hitting Seattle and Portland en route to Chicago and perhaps NYC.

Gulf storms that may blow towards the northeast and cause some rain. I’ve lived through two hurricanes that were way worse than Sandy and no one, especially FEMA and George W. Bush, cared. I’ve endured earthquakes in the west, incredible snowstorms in the Rockies and all Al Roker says is “snow in the Rockies.”

When an incredible storm comes in from the Pacific through Seattle and Portland, where does it go BEFORE it gets to Chicago? The Rockies and high mesas, grasslands where people live. But that’s just a tag line, snow in the Rockies.

My husband could be driving up that mountain I asked him not to (I packed an overnight bag for his car that he never used because he wanted to get home). There was no mass transit, unless you count the free buses that go to the ski areas and back.

The Red Cross has money for the northeast, it always does but is asking for it now on television. No-one helped in Katrina, Rita or Ike. Even New Orleans turned their backs on Texas after we took a majority of their poor population, placed them on welfare and food stamps, put a few to work and others in prison.

I’m not from anywhere in this country of ours, I’m from everywhere. I’ve seen the good and the bad in people and hope that in a disaster, whatever the cause, people will help.

When it comes to natural disasters, TV weather people, please remember that there are folks that don’t live in NYC, LA, Chicago or the beaches of Florida. We live in the cornfields, wheat fields, dairies and cattle farms, and yes we bring your heirloom veggies and fruits to the farmers’ markets so you think they’re local.

We care about our weather and road dangers, power outages and lack of water just like folks from the east coast are now. The difference is that some of us plan  for disaster and have supplies on hand. In the Rockies I had to go the state traffic map online before the storm and see which roads were closed and whether we’d have to take the detour 1.5 hours north or 1.5 hours south (to work).

Everyone suffers from weather concerns. To make the east coast the center of the universe on the news basically says the rest of us just don’t matter.  Not too cheery, Dee

p.s. Mr. Roker, I’ve looked up to you for years. You set the tone in weather coverage (and probably in hours logged and persistence paying off) so please take these comments in the spirit in which they were intended – frustration, disenfranchisement and a hope for change. After all, you taught Sesame Street about hurricanes…..